"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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POF Chick im seeing saw my online profile

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I am on both OKC and POF.

Met a chick from POF in Real Life, been on 3 dates. Had sex on the third.

Meeting her this weekend. She seems a little bit attached.

Haven`t logged in POF. But I've kept communicating with a few other chicks on OKC.

Last night I noticed a blank profile of a chick the same age as the one Ive been dating visited my profile. (on which it says the last time I've logged in).

That made me worried, what if the chick i'm seeing saw that I am still at least semi active on online dating sites?

What are you guys thoughts on this?

Can this be a make or break deal with chicks?
 

"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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In the case of POF I did notice it shows last time online. You can say the app on your phone keeps you signed in. Or just use OKC while your dating her.
 
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is she still on pof? be your ar$e she is still logging in, just be upfront, you arent exclusive, if she sees you online, = she is or has been, online, if she has a fake profile, she is stalking you = red flag, be prepared for the .."my friend is on pof/ok cupid and she says she recognised you on there"
 
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Even if she saw you on there, you've been on 3 dates. You're not married. Hell, you're barely even in the category of "dating".

Don't do that thing where you convince yourself that women are these emotional, relationship-centric, delicate creatures. I've made that mistake myself. If she wants to be exclusive, let her ask, and then make your decision. Until then, keep spinning plates and assume that she is doing the same.
 
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Yeah, I agree. That is what I wanted to hear.

I like the chick, and like I said she seems pretty attached already.. kinda would prefer her not knowing I am still active on OKC. But I want to keep spinning plates.
 

"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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