"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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ok when i was an idiot and didnt know what the hell i was doing with girls, i met this REALLY hot girl... she flirted with ME alot and im pretty sure she liked me... and what did i do? NOTHING.. it still pisses me off today.

Well, i still see her at school alot but dont talk to her, would it be okay for me to talk to her after all of this time has past?? if so , how without making it akward? because this girl is cool as hell and shes so hot!
 

“The 22 Rules That Flip the Script With Women… And How You Can Use Them Tonight”

Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.

Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers.  Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.

I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.

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idk never been in the situation, i think it would be ok if you just played it cool like "accidently ;) " see her in the halls and ask her how shes been or something like that.
 
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well did anything really happen? i mean unless you offended her you should just act like an aquantance who happens to run into her and talks and go from there.

I mean if you want to get with this chick your going to have to start seeing her out of school but you cant just be like " i havent talked to you for x months wanna go tot he movies". This way you can start hanging out/ talking with her more and it wont be weird.
 

"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"

When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.

Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.

Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.

The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.

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dude, just go talk to her. theres nothing to it

like he said, as long as you didn't part on bad terms theres nothing wrong with just walking up to her

my personal favourite line is "(insert name here), where you been all my life?"
 
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no, i didnt do anything to put anything on bad terms im just ****in ***** and im sick of it!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!
 
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easy killer

if thats the case, then just chat her up

get to it tiger
 
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yeah man

yeah man you should like talk to her use that line 'where have you been all my life?'
just relax. take a deep breath. and go talk to that girl. you'll be fine:D
 
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Just go up to her and talk... like nothing happened (past). Be confident, give her a smile and start a simple convo.
 

"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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AND DONT FORGET SOME C&F!!
 
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