"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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pls read need some advice

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ok when i was an idiot and didnt know what the hell i was doing with girls, i met this REALLY hot girl... she flirted with ME alot and im pretty sure she liked me... and what did i do? NOTHING.. it still pisses me off today.

Well, i still see her at school alot but dont talk to her, would it be okay for me to talk to her after all of this time has past?? if so , how without making it akward? because this girl is cool as hell and shes so hot!
 

"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"

When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.

Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.

Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.

The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.

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idk never been in the situation, i think it would be ok if you just played it cool like "accidently ;) " see her in the halls and ask her how shes been or something like that.
 
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well did anything really happen? i mean unless you offended her you should just act like an aquantance who happens to run into her and talks and go from there.

I mean if you want to get with this chick your going to have to start seeing her out of school but you cant just be like " i havent talked to you for x months wanna go tot he movies". This way you can start hanging out/ talking with her more and it wont be weird.
 

"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"

When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.

Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.

Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.

The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.

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dude, just go talk to her. theres nothing to it

like he said, as long as you didn't part on bad terms theres nothing wrong with just walking up to her

my personal favourite line is "(insert name here), where you been all my life?"
 
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no, i didnt do anything to put anything on bad terms im just ****in ***** and im sick of it!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!
 
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easy killer

if thats the case, then just chat her up

get to it tiger
 
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yeah man

yeah man you should like talk to her use that line 'where have you been all my life?'
just relax. take a deep breath. and go talk to that girl. you'll be fine:D
 
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Just go up to her and talk... like nothing happened (past). Be confident, give her a smile and start a simple convo.
 

"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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AND DONT FORGET SOME C&F!!
 
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