"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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pls read need some advice

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ok when i was an idiot and didnt know what the hell i was doing with girls, i met this REALLY hot girl... she flirted with ME alot and im pretty sure she liked me... and what did i do? NOTHING.. it still pisses me off today.

Well, i still see her at school alot but dont talk to her, would it be okay for me to talk to her after all of this time has past?? if so , how without making it akward? because this girl is cool as hell and shes so hot!
 

"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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idk never been in the situation, i think it would be ok if you just played it cool like "accidently ;) " see her in the halls and ask her how shes been or something like that.
 
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well did anything really happen? i mean unless you offended her you should just act like an aquantance who happens to run into her and talks and go from there.

I mean if you want to get with this chick your going to have to start seeing her out of school but you cant just be like " i havent talked to you for x months wanna go tot he movies". This way you can start hanging out/ talking with her more and it wont be weird.
 

"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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dude, just go talk to her. theres nothing to it

like he said, as long as you didn't part on bad terms theres nothing wrong with just walking up to her

my personal favourite line is "(insert name here), where you been all my life?"
 
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no, i didnt do anything to put anything on bad terms im just ****in ***** and im sick of it!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!
 
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easy killer

if thats the case, then just chat her up

get to it tiger
 
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yeah man

yeah man you should like talk to her use that line 'where have you been all my life?'
just relax. take a deep breath. and go talk to that girl. you'll be fine:D
 
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Just go up to her and talk... like nothing happened (past). Be confident, give her a smile and start a simple convo.
 

“The 22 Rules That Turned Me From Invisible to Irresistible With Women… Starting Tonight”

You can skip the expensive cars, the fancy clothes, and the endless gym selfies. Completely unnecessary.

I used to freeze the second a beautiful woman looked my way. Frustrated. Awkward. Watching other guys walk away with the girl while I stood there tongue-tied.

Then I discovered 22 simple rules that rewired my entire dating life. The anxiety vanished. Conversations flowed effortlessly. Women started chasing me for a change.

These rules trigger a woman's subconscious attraction switches. And you can start using them tonight.

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AND DONT FORGET SOME C&F!!
 
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