"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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the girl i met the other day told me yesterday in a convo even though i havent touched the subject that she's is not prepared for a relationship and she thinks now we were going to fast,and then that bull**** it's not you its me...

what does she mean with im not prepared?


she calls me, and shows interest, but whats on her mind, does she only want me as a **** buddy or something?
 

"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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Originally posted by NoMoreAFC
the girl i met the other day told me yesterday in a convo that she's is not prepared for a relationship and she thinks now we were going to fast,and then that bull**** it's not you its me...

what does she mean with im not prepared?


she calls me, and shows interest, but whats on her mind, does she only want me as a **** buddy or something?
It means she's not romantically interested in you, and shows you interest because she wants you as an emotional tampon.

Tell her that's she's absolutely right. You don't want a relationship either, and to take a fvcking hike.

Watch the attitude change that ensues.
 

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what ever is gona happen let it hapen, dont force your self to define it, flirt with her (untill your sure she is not an aw) and let whatever hapens hapen......don't put all your balls in one basket, they might get crushed.
 

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then she came with a strange convo about how would i react if she had a kid, if i still wanted her or not, the truth is she doesnt have any kids but why testing me?


edit: so you guys think its better to move on before i get into deep****?
 

"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"

When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.

Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.

Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.

The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.

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Stay with it if nothing else atleast you will learn somethign from her.

Guys here are to quick to next.

Stay with it

Ninja Out
 

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Sorry. It's over dude. Just forget about her.

If anything, she's just feeling you out for her own benefit.
 

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If you want to waste your time with no possibility of sex then by all means keep talking with her.
 

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then she came with a strange convo about how would i react if she had a kid, if i still wanted her or not, the truth is she doesnt have any kids but why testing me?
You should've made fun of the whole kid thing
 
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Originally posted by NoMoreAFC
the girl i met the other day told me yesterday in a convo even though i havent touched the subject that she's is not prepared for a relationship and she thinks now we were going to fast,and then that bull**** it's not you its me...

what does she mean with im not prepared?


she calls me, and shows interest, but whats on her mind, does she only want me as a **** buddy or something?
How long ago did you meet her?
"Goin to fast"? What have you done together that you are moving so fast?

Sounds like she is shooting you down, has she been touching you on the arm, etc. Flirting?
 

"You Can't Argue a Woman Into Liking You"

You made your case like a lawyer. Stable job. Good guy. Ready for something real. All true. All irrelevant.

She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.

Logic is where attraction goes to die. The "22 Rules" work a level deeper, on the subconscious switches that decide within minutes whether you register as a MAN or as part of the furniture.

Stop presenting evidence. Start flipping switches.

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^ funny. Read the bible. I mean you should try and find something about mindset. WHy the fuc* do you care that she is dumping you? A true DJ could get a gf anytime and it should be the same with you. I hate to tell you to do your homework, but yeah read the bible. And the book of Shuma Gora.

I try and have 5 to 6 girls going at any given time.
 

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It's her way of saying you're not pimp enough tohave her. It's either because she sees you as not worthy enough or there are other men who she wants to have her fun with.
 

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Walk away.

Just walk away.
 

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classic stuff, the replies should cover
 

“The 22 Rules That Flip the Script With Women… And How You Can Use Them Tonight”

Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.

Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers.  Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.

I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.

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