"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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the girl i met the other day told me yesterday in a convo even though i havent touched the subject that she's is not prepared for a relationship and she thinks now we were going to fast,and then that bull**** it's not you its me...

what does she mean with im not prepared?


she calls me, and shows interest, but whats on her mind, does she only want me as a **** buddy or something?
 

"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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Originally posted by NoMoreAFC
the girl i met the other day told me yesterday in a convo that she's is not prepared for a relationship and she thinks now we were going to fast,and then that bull**** it's not you its me...

what does she mean with im not prepared?


she calls me, and shows interest, but whats on her mind, does she only want me as a **** buddy or something?
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It means she's not romantically interested in you, and shows you interest because she wants you as an emotional tampon.

Tell her that's she's absolutely right. You don't want a relationship either, and to take a fvcking hike.

Watch the attitude change that ensues.
 
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what ever is gona happen let it hapen, dont force your self to define it, flirt with her (untill your sure she is not an aw) and let whatever hapens hapen......don't put all your balls in one basket, they might get crushed.
 
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then she came with a strange convo about how would i react if she had a kid, if i still wanted her or not, the truth is she doesnt have any kids but why testing me?


edit: so you guys think its better to move on before i get into deep****?
 

"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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Stay with it if nothing else atleast you will learn somethign from her.

Guys here are to quick to next.

Stay with it

Ninja Out
 
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Sorry. It's over dude. Just forget about her.

If anything, she's just feeling you out for her own benefit.
 
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If you want to waste your time with no possibility of sex then by all means keep talking with her.
 
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then she came with a strange convo about how would i react if she had a kid, if i still wanted her or not, the truth is she doesnt have any kids but why testing me?
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You should've made fun of the whole kid thing
 
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Originally posted by NoMoreAFC
the girl i met the other day told me yesterday in a convo even though i havent touched the subject that she's is not prepared for a relationship and she thinks now we were going to fast,and then that bull**** it's not you its me...

what does she mean with im not prepared?


she calls me, and shows interest, but whats on her mind, does she only want me as a **** buddy or something?
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How long ago did you meet her?
"Goin to fast"? What have you done together that you are moving so fast?

Sounds like she is shooting you down, has she been touching you on the arm, etc. Flirting?
 

"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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^ funny. Read the bible. I mean you should try and find something about mindset. WHy the fuc* do you care that she is dumping you? A true DJ could get a gf anytime and it should be the same with you. I hate to tell you to do your homework, but yeah read the bible. And the book of Shuma Gora.

I try and have 5 to 6 girls going at any given time.
 
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It's her way of saying you're not pimp enough tohave her. It's either because she sees you as not worthy enough or there are other men who she wants to have her fun with.
 
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Walk away.

Just walk away.
 
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classic stuff, the replies should cover
 

“The 22 Rules That Flip the Script With Women… And How You Can Use Them Tonight”

Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.

Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers.  Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.

I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.

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