"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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the girl i met the other day told me yesterday in a convo even though i havent touched the subject that she's is not prepared for a relationship and she thinks now we were going to fast,and then that bull**** it's not you its me...

what does she mean with im not prepared?


she calls me, and shows interest, but whats on her mind, does she only want me as a **** buddy or something?
 

"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

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Originally posted by NoMoreAFC
the girl i met the other day told me yesterday in a convo that she's is not prepared for a relationship and she thinks now we were going to fast,and then that bull**** it's not you its me...

what does she mean with im not prepared?


she calls me, and shows interest, but whats on her mind, does she only want me as a **** buddy or something?
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It means she's not romantically interested in you, and shows you interest because she wants you as an emotional tampon.

Tell her that's she's absolutely right. You don't want a relationship either, and to take a fvcking hike.

Watch the attitude change that ensues.
 
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what ever is gona happen let it hapen, dont force your self to define it, flirt with her (untill your sure she is not an aw) and let whatever hapens hapen......don't put all your balls in one basket, they might get crushed.
 
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then she came with a strange convo about how would i react if she had a kid, if i still wanted her or not, the truth is she doesnt have any kids but why testing me?


edit: so you guys think its better to move on before i get into deep****?
 

"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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Stay with it if nothing else atleast you will learn somethign from her.

Guys here are to quick to next.

Stay with it

Ninja Out
 
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Sorry. It's over dude. Just forget about her.

If anything, she's just feeling you out for her own benefit.
 
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If you want to waste your time with no possibility of sex then by all means keep talking with her.
 
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then she came with a strange convo about how would i react if she had a kid, if i still wanted her or not, the truth is she doesnt have any kids but why testing me?
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You should've made fun of the whole kid thing
 
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Originally posted by NoMoreAFC
the girl i met the other day told me yesterday in a convo even though i havent touched the subject that she's is not prepared for a relationship and she thinks now we were going to fast,and then that bull**** it's not you its me...

what does she mean with im not prepared?


she calls me, and shows interest, but whats on her mind, does she only want me as a **** buddy or something?
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How long ago did you meet her?
"Goin to fast"? What have you done together that you are moving so fast?

Sounds like she is shooting you down, has she been touching you on the arm, etc. Flirting?
 

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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^ funny. Read the bible. I mean you should try and find something about mindset. WHy the fuc* do you care that she is dumping you? A true DJ could get a gf anytime and it should be the same with you. I hate to tell you to do your homework, but yeah read the bible. And the book of Shuma Gora.

I try and have 5 to 6 girls going at any given time.
 
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It's her way of saying you're not pimp enough tohave her. It's either because she sees you as not worthy enough or there are other men who she wants to have her fun with.
 
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Walk away.

Just walk away.
 
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classic stuff, the replies should cover
 

“The 22 Psychological Triggers That Make Women Chase You… Starting Tonight”

Forget the cash, the cars, and the chiseled jawlines. Female desire operates on a completely different frequency. Primal. Subconscious. Triggers that bypass her logic and hit her on a gut level. Most guys are totally blind to them.

I know because I was one of them. The overthinking. The paralysis. The silent drive home kicking yourself for freezing up. Watching average guys walk away with the girl while you stood there stuck in your own head.

Then I decoded the psychology behind what actually makes women tick. 22 hard rules.  Subtle behavioral shifts that rewired my entire reality. The anxiety evaporated. Women started leaning in. Investing. Chasing.

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