Please Respond!

[hjsknksbm]

I don't know wtf my problem is but ALMOST every girl i get a number from or meet through a friend or whatever always gives me the same F-ing line "can i call u back?" and of course i know they wont because they never do. Am i not finding a common ground, interesting, or good looking enough? check out my profile im not that bad looking. I have the upmost confidence with women but it doesnt help me. Im just sick and tired of playing the games. y cant girls be blunt and say ur ugly? i would much rather that! I just need input on how u guys get dates from approach, talk, get #, or whatever process u guys use. A RESPONSE WOULD BE GREATLY APPRECIATED.

 

[ManOMan]

why do you have a male symbol on your chest? Not to diss or anything, but thats a symbol the gay population embraces.

Other than that, what exactly are you doing wrong on the fone? Are you talking too long? do you bore them? are you too eager?

we need to know exactly what a typical phone conversation consists of to help you

 

[SuperMan_Wuss]

Dude, when the chyck says can I call you back, say NO. tell her you have to do something and now is the only time you can talk. take control man. show that bytch who the top dawg is. never give into a woman. remember to play with her. you could say, "you wont be able to call me back babe, I am on a flight to Bora Bora right now and I wont be back for 3 days" Or say something CF like that. dont be a puss

 

[hjsknksbm]

my phone conversations arn't very long and consist usually of small talk. You know "what r u doin?" Then ill ask them out casually like "so u doin anything on thursday." A common thing is i dont establish a common ground, but thats what the dates for right? Or maybe i need to talk to them more. But i like the comment by the other guy saying, "well this is the only time i can talk" I did read the DJB and incorporate using names and showing i understand and am listening. As far as my tat goes i like it and think it brings out my masculinity. But most people dont c it from that angle. If it is gay then im harmless to women right? ha ha =

 

[PuertoRican_Lover]

They are giving you the right phone number but not the time of day?

Could be having second thoughts once you leave their sight. Try talking them longer when you first meet them and before you ask for their number - reach a common ground here and increase her interest level with your initial charm and wit!

You could also suggest an activity right away when she gives you the number and see how she responds! Say, "Do you like to bowl?" No! How about going fishing or flying a kite?