"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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please respond - advice?

silkkster

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Soo there is woman - she has come over about 4 or 5 times (to my apartment) we usually work on some homework (we are in one of the same classes), eat some dinner together and after we watch a movie. Now i have gotten the majority of all the signals already! last time she was here was the first time we acctually "cuddled" (i had my arm around her, also she layed her head on my chest). I have kissed her on the cheak (i did the whol hug thing and kissed her on the cheek - she seemed like she liked it) So my problem is - just about everytime i ask if she wants to do something or hangout she says something to the tone of "lets work together insted" ? what are your thoughts? Im just confused - we went to walmart and she referred to us as a couple (said something like "we are a ... couple" - i dont remember sorry) any thoughts or advice would be appreciated, because i am into this girl - seems she is to but i dont know.. thanks!
 

"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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thefonz

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do your homework bud, look through the site....the advice is all over the place, read the bible....if you had read through it efficiently you'd know what to do
 

TheNonPedant

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please ask a direct question....I don't know how to answer this!
 

silkkster

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well i was trying get some of your thoughts over this ... get another persons opinion about whats going on? Is this a sign of low interest level? thnks
 

"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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DeathDealer

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dude we're not mind readers. be sexually aggressive like squeezing her buttocks or rubbing her crotch - if she is offended by that especially after you did those things then it might be low interest.
 
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