"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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please respond - advice?

silkkster

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Soo there is woman - she has come over about 4 or 5 times (to my apartment) we usually work on some homework (we are in one of the same classes), eat some dinner together and after we watch a movie. Now i have gotten the majority of all the signals already! last time she was here was the first time we acctually "cuddled" (i had my arm around her, also she layed her head on my chest). I have kissed her on the cheak (i did the whol hug thing and kissed her on the cheek - she seemed like she liked it) So my problem is - just about everytime i ask if she wants to do something or hangout she says something to the tone of "lets work together insted" ? what are your thoughts? Im just confused - we went to walmart and she referred to us as a couple (said something like "we are a ... couple" - i dont remember sorry) any thoughts or advice would be appreciated, because i am into this girl - seems she is to but i dont know.. thanks!
 

“The 22 Psychological Triggers That Make Women Chase You… Starting Tonight”

Forget the cash, the cars, and the chiseled jawlines. Female desire operates on a completely different frequency. Primal. Subconscious. Triggers that bypass her logic and hit her on a gut level. Most guys are totally blind to them.

I know because I was one of them. The overthinking. The paralysis. The silent drive home kicking yourself for freezing up. Watching average guys walk away with the girl while you stood there stuck in your own head.

Then I decoded the psychology behind what actually makes women tick. 22 hard rules.  Subtle behavioral shifts that rewired my entire reality. The anxiety evaporated. Women started leaning in. Investing. Chasing.

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thefonz

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do your homework bud, look through the site....the advice is all over the place, read the bible....if you had read through it efficiently you'd know what to do
 

TheNonPedant

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please ask a direct question....I don't know how to answer this!
 

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well i was trying get some of your thoughts over this ... get another persons opinion about whats going on? Is this a sign of low interest level? thnks
 

"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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DeathDealer

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dude we're not mind readers. be sexually aggressive like squeezing her buttocks or rubbing her crotch - if she is offended by that especially after you did those things then it might be low interest.
 
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