"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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please respond - advice?

silkkster

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Soo there is woman - she has come over about 4 or 5 times (to my apartment) we usually work on some homework (we are in one of the same classes), eat some dinner together and after we watch a movie. Now i have gotten the majority of all the signals already! last time she was here was the first time we acctually "cuddled" (i had my arm around her, also she layed her head on my chest). I have kissed her on the cheak (i did the whol hug thing and kissed her on the cheek - she seemed like she liked it) So my problem is - just about everytime i ask if she wants to do something or hangout she says something to the tone of "lets work together insted" ? what are your thoughts? Im just confused - we went to walmart and she referred to us as a couple (said something like "we are a ... couple" - i dont remember sorry) any thoughts or advice would be appreciated, because i am into this girl - seems she is to but i dont know.. thanks!
 

“The 22 Psychological Triggers That Make Women Chase You… Starting Tonight”

Forget the cash, the cars, and the chiseled jawlines. Female desire operates on a completely different frequency. Primal. Subconscious. Triggers that bypass her logic and hit her on a gut level. Most guys are totally blind to them.

I know because I was one of them. The overthinking. The paralysis. The silent drive home kicking yourself for freezing up. Watching average guys walk away with the girl while you stood there stuck in your own head.

Then I decoded the psychology behind what actually makes women tick. 22 hard rules.  Subtle behavioral shifts that rewired my entire reality. The anxiety evaporated. Women started leaning in. Investing. Chasing.

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thefonz

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do your homework bud, look through the site....the advice is all over the place, read the bible....if you had read through it efficiently you'd know what to do
 

TheNonPedant

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please ask a direct question....I don't know how to answer this!
 

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well i was trying get some of your thoughts over this ... get another persons opinion about whats going on? Is this a sign of low interest level? thnks
 

"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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DeathDealer

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dude we're not mind readers. be sexually aggressive like squeezing her buttocks or rubbing her crotch - if she is offended by that especially after you did those things then it might be low interest.
 
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