"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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Please recommend NLP books! Thanks!

Demon

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I'm looking for a set (or list) of recommended books on Neuro Linguistic Programming.

I'd like to apply NLP to advertising and copywriting, although, I'm sure it has already been applied. It wouldn't hurt to empower advertising with an extra layer of NLP.

Thanks!
 

"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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Read first Introducing neuro-linguistic programming: psychological skills for understanding and influencing people
by Joseph O'Connor and John Seymour

It's an overview of NLP, the main characteristics.
It's very good.

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I just found Frogs to Princes at the college library. So I'm going to read this one.

I'll let you know how it is. In the meantime plenty of coursework to do!
 

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This book is not that obvious about NLP, but I have found many parallels. It is called "The New Psycho-Cybernetics" by Dr Maltz and edited by marketing guru Dan Kennedy who uses it himself. It is a self-help book, but by far it is the best one I've read. No NLP book comes close.

For pure NLP, I would suggest "Tranceformations," by Bandler and Grinder. the best NLP book I've read. This book is quickly becoming a commodity to have so hurry and find your copy somewhere. It is also very applicable for advertising. If you add to it "Influence" by Robert Cialdini, you've got an irresistable combination.

And for a little newer NLP, read "Time For a Change" by Bandler, a self-help book but has good stuff in it like the NLP attitude which is absolutely crucial before you learn any technique.

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“The 22 Rules That Turned Me From Invisible to Irresistible With Women… Starting Tonight”

You can skip the expensive cars, the fancy clothes, and the endless gym selfies. Completely unnecessary.

I used to freeze the second a beautiful woman looked my way. Frustrated. Awkward. Watching other guys walk away with the girl while I stood there tongue-tied.

Then I discovered 22 simple rules that rewired my entire dating life. The anxiety vanished. Conversations flowed effortlessly. Women started chasing me for a change.

These rules trigger a woman's subconscious attraction switches. And you can start using them tonight.

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