"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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Please help - at desperation level

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Guys,

I need some serious tricks/advice/slapping

I just cannot get my ex outta my head....6 MOTHS down the line. Doesnt help that she lives in the same towm. I think one of the reasons is that in our on/off relationship, she always dissapeared as an end cycle was coming.


The last time, i saw her again but was in a relationship with someone else....we started up again, but i refused to leave the current partner till she kinda gave me a solid yes to a proper relationship without any stupid on/off rubbish.

She finally asked me to leave the current one so we could make a go of it......the night i did, she kinda went nuts on me, we didnt talk for a couple of days. Then met up and again she went nuts on me. We then met up again and she said we cant go on...two days after me leaving the other one.....

I think its just the deception and betrayal i feel...... i thought the world of this one, even though she played me. She was just so so hot. Liked her family even though they are super rich and i am not (the reason why i think she never commited....different social classes)

I told her never ever contact me....... and thats been it. 6 months straight. I avoid any local bars because i just dont want to see her....yet think about her all the time......


suggestions please.........i'm goin nuts.........
 

"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"

When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.

Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.

Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.

The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.

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What kind helped me was I got some of my friends to go out to lunch with me one time and they just started talking extreme **** about her and all of her flaws. Then they started talking about girls they were mirin and suggested girls I go for.

Of course I got over her only temporarily but it definitely helped a little.

If you don't have any friends that knew her then just think about all of her flaws and look at unattractive pictures of her on facebook.
 
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The problem is, you have no other women. You should have a new woman every week or else you are not going out and/or not attractive enough. I recommend you start wearing suspenders immediately.
 
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Hey join the club. See my onetis '11 posts. Am I supposed to offer you head as a consolation?
 

"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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