"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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Please help - at desperation level

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TonyBaloney

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Guys,

I need some serious tricks/advice/slapping

I just cannot get my ex outta my head....6 MOTHS down the line. Doesnt help that she lives in the same towm. I think one of the reasons is that in our on/off relationship, she always dissapeared as an end cycle was coming.


The last time, i saw her again but was in a relationship with someone else....we started up again, but i refused to leave the current partner till she kinda gave me a solid yes to a proper relationship without any stupid on/off rubbish.

She finally asked me to leave the current one so we could make a go of it......the night i did, she kinda went nuts on me, we didnt talk for a couple of days. Then met up and again she went nuts on me. We then met up again and she said we cant go on...two days after me leaving the other one.....

I think its just the deception and betrayal i feel...... i thought the world of this one, even though she played me. She was just so so hot. Liked her family even though they are super rich and i am not (the reason why i think she never commited....different social classes)

I told her never ever contact me....... and thats been it. 6 months straight. I avoid any local bars because i just dont want to see her....yet think about her all the time......


suggestions please.........i'm goin nuts.........
 

"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

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What kind helped me was I got some of my friends to go out to lunch with me one time and they just started talking extreme **** about her and all of her flaws. Then they started talking about girls they were mirin and suggested girls I go for.

Of course I got over her only temporarily but it definitely helped a little.

If you don't have any friends that knew her then just think about all of her flaws and look at unattractive pictures of her on facebook.
 
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The problem is, you have no other women. You should have a new woman every week or else you are not going out and/or not attractive enough. I recommend you start wearing suspenders immediately.
 
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Hey join the club. See my onetis '11 posts. Am I supposed to offer you head as a consolation?
 

“The 22 Psychological Triggers That Make Women Chase You… Starting Tonight”

Forget the cash, the cars, and the chiseled jawlines. Female desire operates on a completely different frequency. Primal. Subconscious. Triggers that bypass her logic and hit her on a gut level. Most guys are totally blind to them.

I know because I was one of them. The overthinking. The paralysis. The silent drive home kicking yourself for freezing up. Watching average guys walk away with the girl while you stood there stuck in your own head.

Then I decoded the psychology behind what actually makes women tick. 22 hard rules.  Subtle behavioral shifts that rewired my entire reality. The anxiety evaporated. Women started leaning in. Investing. Chasing.

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