Please help - at desperation level

[TonyBaloney]

Guys,

I need some serious tricks/advice/slapping

I just cannot get my ex outta my head....6 MOTHS down the line. Doesnt help that she lives in the same towm. I think one of the reasons is that in our on/off relationship, she always dissapeared as an end cycle was coming.


The last time, i saw her again but was in a relationship with someone else....we started up again, but i refused to leave the current partner till she kinda gave me a solid yes to a proper relationship without any stupid on/off rubbish.

She finally asked me to leave the current one so we could make a go of it......the night i did, she kinda went nuts on me, we didnt talk for a couple of days. Then met up and again she went nuts on me. We then met up again and she said we cant go on...two days after me leaving the other one.....

I think its just the deception and betrayal i feel...... i thought the world of this one, even though she played me. She was just so so hot. Liked her family even though they are super rich and i am not (the reason why i think she never commited....different social classes)

I told her never ever contact me....... and thats been it. 6 months straight. I avoid any local bars because i just dont want to see her....yet think about her all the time......


suggestions please.........i'm goin nuts.........

 

[dds98]

What kind helped me was I got some of my friends to go out to lunch with me one time and they just started talking extreme **** about her and all of her flaws. Then they started talking about girls they were mirin and suggested girls I go for.

Of course I got over her only temporarily but it definitely helped a little.

If you don't have any friends that knew her then just think about all of her flaws and look at unattractive pictures of her on facebook.

 

[bigneil]

The problem is, you have no other women. You should have a new woman every week or else you are not going out and/or not attractive enough. I recommend you start wearing suspenders immediately.

 

[TonyBaloney]

thanks neil - this was a kick in the balls at a low point - cheers!

 

[bigneil]

Hey join the club. See my onetis '11 posts. Am I supposed to offer you head as a consolation?