"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"
You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.
Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.
Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.
Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.
Please don't say this to any chick !
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"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."
Attraction runs on a clock.
She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.
The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."
One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.
Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.
The Nice Guy is Gone
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That made me laugh. I wonder how long she'll stay with him.
Smooth Player 056
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frivolousz21
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"She's Out of Your League"
You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.
Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.
She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.
Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.
B-Lemond
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Francisco d'Anconia
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JaguarMike
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dude... you have no competition with this boyfriend, take the girl... NOW.
Blackdragon5095
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what kind of dumb@$$ dosen't fyck his g/f cause he loves her. He must be gay, stupid ( IQ level: 1.4 ) or That girl is making up stories.
Good HUmor
Bible_Belt
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"You Can't Argue a Woman Into Liking You"
You made your case like a lawyer. Stable job. Good guy. Ready for something real. All true. All irrelevant.
She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.
Logic is where attraction goes to die. The "22 Rules" work a level deeper, on the subconscious switches that decide within minutes whether you register as a MAN or as part of the furniture.
Stop presenting evidence. Start flipping switches.
Deadly_Assassin
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aftershock
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Never a truer word spoken!Originally posted by Francisco d'Anconia
He's just another 'nice guy.' She'll get bored soon enough and will end up with one of us.
One of my friends was going out with a guy for two YEARS and they didn't have sex! She asked him why and he said "its because I don't love you". What the fvck? She dumped hm and fvcked someone else pretty quick. She's now going out with a woman, interestingly.
I can't work out which one is more AFC.
Lost In the Seas
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The Nice Guy is Gone
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he could've come up with a better reason if that is the case. You say he may just not want to take advantage of her--but on of the biggest lead-ons a guy and give a girl is to tell her he loves her--it's in the emotion, and the fact that guys wait a LONG time before even considering saying that, whether it happens quickly or not.
Keeper
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He may be a Christian, too unwilling to actually break his own rules and stuff... so he just used an AFC excuse. :-/
"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"
When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.
Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.
Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.
The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.
The Nice Guy is Gone
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BackToTheMack
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... ahh, shame.