"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"
You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.
For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.
Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.
The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.
Please don't say this to any chick !
- Thread starter Tkman
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“The 22 Rules That Turned Me From Invisible to Irresistible With Women… Starting Tonight”
You can skip the expensive cars, the fancy clothes, and the endless gym selfies. Completely unnecessary.
I used to freeze the second a beautiful woman looked my way. Frustrated. Awkward. Watching other guys walk away with the girl while I stood there tongue-tied.
Then I discovered 22 simple rules that rewired my entire dating life. The anxiety vanished. Conversations flowed effortlessly. Women started chasing me for a change.
These rules trigger a woman's subconscious attraction switches. And you can start using them tonight.
The Nice Guy is Gone
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That made me laugh. I wonder how long she'll stay with him.
Smooth Player 056
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frivolousz21
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"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"
Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.
You've been "getting ready" for two years.
She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.
Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.
B-Lemond
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Francisco d'Anconia
Master Don Juan
JaguarMike
Don Juan
dude... you have no competition with this boyfriend, take the girl... NOW.
Blackdragon5095
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what kind of dumb@$$ dosen't fyck his g/f cause he loves her. He must be gay, stupid ( IQ level: 1.4 ) or That girl is making up stories.
Good HUmor
Bible_Belt
Master Don Juan
"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"
You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.
Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.
Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.
Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.
Deadly_Assassin
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aftershock
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Never a truer word spoken!Originally posted by Francisco d'Anconia
He's just another 'nice guy.' She'll get bored soon enough and will end up with one of us.
One of my friends was going out with a guy for two YEARS and they didn't have sex! She asked him why and he said "its because I don't love you". What the fvck? She dumped hm and fvcked someone else pretty quick. She's now going out with a woman, interestingly.
I can't work out which one is more AFC.
Lost In the Seas
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The Nice Guy is Gone
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he could've come up with a better reason if that is the case. You say he may just not want to take advantage of her--but on of the biggest lead-ons a guy and give a girl is to tell her he loves her--it's in the emotion, and the fact that guys wait a LONG time before even considering saying that, whether it happens quickly or not.
Keeper
Master Don Juan
He may be a Christian, too unwilling to actually break his own rules and stuff... so he just used an AFC excuse. :-/
"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"
She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.
Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.
The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.
The Nice Guy is Gone
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BackToTheMack
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Keeper
Master Don Juan
... ahh, shame.