"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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Please don't say this to any chick !

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Talking to a chick today and she said .... she was trying to get laid with her one-month boyfriend and he said ' he wouldn't because he loves her too much'

Please don't say this to any chick !
 

"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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The Nice Guy is Gone

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So, the guy is telling her no--because he loves her too much.

That made me laugh. I wonder how long she'll stay with him.
 

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Originally posted by frivolousz21
your pretty freaking old to be here :)
I am gonna beat you with my cane punk ! :trouble:
 

“The 22 Rules That Turned Me From Invisible to Irresistible With Women… Starting Tonight”

You can skip the expensive cars, the fancy clothes, and the endless gym selfies. Completely unnecessary.

I used to freeze the second a beautiful woman looked my way. Frustrated. Awkward. Watching other guys walk away with the girl while I stood there tongue-tied.

Then I discovered 22 simple rules that rewired my entire dating life. The anxiety vanished. Conversations flowed effortlessly. Women started chasing me for a change.

These rules trigger a woman's subconscious attraction switches. And you can start using them tonight.

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Or maybe he tried to let her down easily, so she wouldn't get hurt. Ever think of that? That is exactly what I thought when I read this.
 

Francisco d'Anconia

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He's just another 'nice guy.' She'll get bored soon enough and will end up with one of us. :p
 

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boyfriend is stuck in 7th grade loveydovey mentality... haha and to think a long time ago, in a galaxy far far away I actually said the same thing...

dude... you have no competition with this boyfriend, take the girl... NOW.
 

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LMAO !!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!:crackup: :crackup:


what kind of dumb@$$ dosen't fyck his g/f cause he loves her. He must be gay, stupid ( IQ level: 1.4 ) or That girl is making up stories.

Good HUmor
 

"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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maybe hes scared that she might laugh and tell everyone how small he is?
 

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Originally posted by Francisco d'Anconia
He's just another 'nice guy.' She'll get bored soon enough and will end up with one of us. :p
Never a truer word spoken!


One of my friends was going out with a guy for two YEARS and they didn't have sex! She asked him why and he said "its because I don't love you". What the fvck? She dumped hm and fvcked someone else pretty quick. She's now going out with a woman, interestingly.

I can't work out which one is more AFC.
 

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i think he doesn't really like the girl and wouldn't want to take advantage of her just before he is going to break up with her
 

The Nice Guy is Gone

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Originally posted by Lost In the Seas
i think he doesn't really like the girl and wouldn't want to take advantage of her just before he is going to break up with her
he could've come up with a better reason if that is the case. You say he may just not want to take advantage of her--but on of the biggest lead-ons a guy and give a girl is to tell her he loves her--it's in the emotion, and the fact that guys wait a LONG time before even considering saying that, whether it happens quickly or not.
 

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You people are neglecting one side of this:

He may be a Christian, too unwilling to actually break his own rules and stuff... so he just used an AFC excuse. :-/
 

"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"

When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.

Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.

Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.

The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.

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The Nice Guy is Gone

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That is entierly possible, but very unlikely.
 

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hahahahaha id love to see the guys face when she breaks up with him or when he finds our shes cheating. What a tool!
 

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Yeah... guys like that, possibly Christians, have it hard finding a chick who shares the same values and stuff...

... ahh, shame.
 
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