"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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Please critique my workout routine

bud_2005

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Monday:
3 sets of pushups until failure
Bench Press
Incline Bench Press
Chest Press
FW Pec Dec
Squats

Tuesday:
3 sets of pullups until failure
Seated Rows
Lat Pull Downs
T-Bar rows
Lunges

Wednesday:
Arnold Presses
Laterals
Front Raises
Deadlifts

Thursday:
Preacher Curl
EZ Curls
Hammer Curls
Triceps Push Downs

Everything is 3 sets with 4-5 reps per set. Monday is chest day, Tuesday is back day, Wednesday is shoulder day, and Thurdsday is Biceps/Triceps day.
IF I have a free weekend I take Wednesday off and move everything a day.
Sunday is a rest day and the other two days are for cardio. Thanks
 

"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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Warboss Alex

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I don't like it (too much volume on unnecessary muscle groups and a lack of core training), check Where To Start or stronglift's beginner strength program for better options
 

EFFORT

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bud_2005 said:
Thank you Warboss anybody else have an opinion?
that wasn't the answer you were looking for? That routine you posted is a disaster man. Listen to warboss.
 

Drum&Bass

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Monday: Legs

Tuesday: Arms

Wednesday:
Chest / Shoulders

Thursday: OFF

Friday: Back

Saturday: OFF

Sunday: OFF


 

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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