"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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Please critique my routine

originaldj

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I just started working out last week. Im 6foot 1 inch and weigh 160 IBs, so my first priority is to gain weight. the routine that I am currently doing is off this website http://www.sport-fitness-advisor.com/dumbbellexercises.html. I do three sets 10 reps in each exercise and I do the first 4 body groups on day 1 and next 4 on day 2. As far as eating goes I don't really have a set schedule, however I added 4 protein shakes a day + a can of tuna to ensure I get enough protein. Can anyone offer me suggestions to improve my routine.

BTW I only have access to a set of dumbells and a bench but will get a gym membership after school is over. Thanks in advance.
 

"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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Come on guys pls.........it only takes a sec and I really need some input
 

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you can't do everything with just dumbells

do you go to the gym?

i'll just quickly list some good and proven exercises for each muscle

Biceps: dumbell Curls, hammer curls, concentration curls, barbell

Tris: skullcrushers, rope pulldown, dips, tricept kickbacks, close grip bench

Shoulders: lat rasies, dumbell press, barbell press, barbell raises

Chest: bench, incline/decline bench, dumbell presses, incline presses, flys

Back: reverse grip wide pull ups, bend over barbell rows, machine row,

look around here or google, you'll find much better work out routines that what i just slapped up in a few minutes

if you're not going to the gym, because i know gym gets expensive, then buy dumbells and maybe those exercises on that link you provided would be best for you
 

"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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