"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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Wodan

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Honest answer, This picture is saying to me please dont look at my face, look how much work ive put into my body instead.

Your best bet would be a fully clothed picture that does not hide your face, Also tilt your head to the side you have good cheekbones and jawline (the angle shows it off better)

As for clothes wear a vest top your shoulders and arms are worth showing.
 

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As for body alignment for the pose, lift your shoulders up, then back, then down. now theyre in the correct position for a photo. Be relaxed in this position dont force it or its too obvious your posing.
 

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As for taking the photo in black and white, I dont like it. I assume you have white skin?

If you have issues with skin complection tan yourself or wear fake tan.
 

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Honestly, trying to use Facebook to pick up chicks is like trying to get a fat kid to eat broccoli. It won't happen. If you really want a good Facebook picture, put a picture up of you and your friends with your best, big smile. You have no idea how many guys I know that use Facebook as their sole source of game. It's pathetic.
 

"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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no i am tanned. not white. brown skin. not using it to pick up girls, but at the same time im just thinking of changing my pic cause the one i have up there is kinda old. I've been on this routine for a while and so i always get questions about it, so i figure i'd put up a progress pic up. But your right its kinda showing too much i think
 

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And yeah you probably look better with your best smile, although i cant say withought seeing first, some do the serious look better. Another thing dont rely on facebook as your source of game!
 

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I wouldnt necessarily say its showing too much, ive got a topless picture on my facebook, dont be having it as your display though.
 

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No man its trying too hard and girls don't like that. Congrats though you look good (and I'm not gay :D)
 

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Venom you'd be surprised how many people actually see your profile picture. I would save that for something for myspace...its easier to search you on facebook.

One of my muay thai instructors periodically goes through facebooks of his students, mainly because alot of the high school students in my class hold the real life version of "Fight Club" where they hold full contact fights against each other. I'm not friended with him so its not THAT big an issue, but if I set my profile to a picture like that he'd probably lose some respect in me.
 

“The 22 Psychological Triggers That Make Women Chase You… Starting Tonight”

Forget the cash, the cars, and the chiseled jawlines. Female desire operates on a completely different frequency. Primal. Subconscious. Triggers that bypass her logic and hit her on a gut level. Most guys are totally blind to them.

I know because I was one of them. The overthinking. The paralysis. The silent drive home kicking yourself for freezing up. Watching average guys walk away with the girl while you stood there stuck in your own head.

Then I decoded the psychology behind what actually makes women tick. 22 hard rules.  Subtle behavioral shifts that rewired my entire reality. The anxiety evaporated. Women started leaning in. Investing. Chasing.

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great, thanks.. ya i dont think i'll put it up. thanks for the advice guys.

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