"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"

When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.

Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.

Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.

The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.

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Wodan

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Honest answer, This picture is saying to me please dont look at my face, look how much work ive put into my body instead.

Your best bet would be a fully clothed picture that does not hide your face, Also tilt your head to the side you have good cheekbones and jawline (the angle shows it off better)

As for clothes wear a vest top your shoulders and arms are worth showing.
 

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As for body alignment for the pose, lift your shoulders up, then back, then down. now theyre in the correct position for a photo. Be relaxed in this position dont force it or its too obvious your posing.
 

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As for taking the photo in black and white, I dont like it. I assume you have white skin?

If you have issues with skin complection tan yourself or wear fake tan.
 

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Honestly, trying to use Facebook to pick up chicks is like trying to get a fat kid to eat broccoli. It won't happen. If you really want a good Facebook picture, put a picture up of you and your friends with your best, big smile. You have no idea how many guys I know that use Facebook as their sole source of game. It's pathetic.
 

"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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no i am tanned. not white. brown skin. not using it to pick up girls, but at the same time im just thinking of changing my pic cause the one i have up there is kinda old. I've been on this routine for a while and so i always get questions about it, so i figure i'd put up a progress pic up. But your right its kinda showing too much i think
 

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And yeah you probably look better with your best smile, although i cant say withought seeing first, some do the serious look better. Another thing dont rely on facebook as your source of game!
 

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I wouldnt necessarily say its showing too much, ive got a topless picture on my facebook, dont be having it as your display though.
 

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No man its trying too hard and girls don't like that. Congrats though you look good (and I'm not gay :D)
 

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Venom you'd be surprised how many people actually see your profile picture. I would save that for something for myspace...its easier to search you on facebook.

One of my muay thai instructors periodically goes through facebooks of his students, mainly because alot of the high school students in my class hold the real life version of "Fight Club" where they hold full contact fights against each other. I'm not friended with him so its not THAT big an issue, but if I set my profile to a picture like that he'd probably lose some respect in me.
 

"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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great, thanks.. ya i dont think i'll put it up. thanks for the advice guys.

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