"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."

Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.

Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?

You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.

Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.

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Honest answer, This picture is saying to me please dont look at my face, look how much work ive put into my body instead.

Your best bet would be a fully clothed picture that does not hide your face, Also tilt your head to the side you have good cheekbones and jawline (the angle shows it off better)

As for clothes wear a vest top your shoulders and arms are worth showing.
 

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As for body alignment for the pose, lift your shoulders up, then back, then down. now theyre in the correct position for a photo. Be relaxed in this position dont force it or its too obvious your posing.
 

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As for taking the photo in black and white, I dont like it. I assume you have white skin?

If you have issues with skin complection tan yourself or wear fake tan.
 

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Honestly, trying to use Facebook to pick up chicks is like trying to get a fat kid to eat broccoli. It won't happen. If you really want a good Facebook picture, put a picture up of you and your friends with your best, big smile. You have no idea how many guys I know that use Facebook as their sole source of game. It's pathetic.
 

“The 22 Rules That Flip the Script With Women… And How You Can Use Them Tonight”

Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.

Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers.  Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.

I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.

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no i am tanned. not white. brown skin. not using it to pick up girls, but at the same time im just thinking of changing my pic cause the one i have up there is kinda old. I've been on this routine for a while and so i always get questions about it, so i figure i'd put up a progress pic up. But your right its kinda showing too much i think
 

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And yeah you probably look better with your best smile, although i cant say withought seeing first, some do the serious look better. Another thing dont rely on facebook as your source of game!
 

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I wouldnt necessarily say its showing too much, ive got a topless picture on my facebook, dont be having it as your display though.
 

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No man its trying too hard and girls don't like that. Congrats though you look good (and I'm not gay :D)
 

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Venom you'd be surprised how many people actually see your profile picture. I would save that for something for myspace...its easier to search you on facebook.

One of my muay thai instructors periodically goes through facebooks of his students, mainly because alot of the high school students in my class hold the real life version of "Fight Club" where they hold full contact fights against each other. I'm not friended with him so its not THAT big an issue, but if I set my profile to a picture like that he'd probably lose some respect in me.
 

"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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great, thanks.. ya i dont think i'll put it up. thanks for the advice guys.

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