"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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dockta

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Well, i did it again..... as of late my work out in the field has been going... well.. better.... BUT.. yesterday evening.. i went out with a mate... and we went for a feed and then a bar.. great evening..! anyway.. my game was feeling strong.. smiles, ec.. etc.. but nothing much i wanted to pursue. I was feeling confident, slghtly coc*y etc. When i spotted these couple of hot HB9s (seperate incidents) got the smiles the EC, great signals.. and what do do.... NOTHING.. FUC*IN SQUAT!! why.. because i am a FUC*IN IDIOT. 2 great opportunities missed.

So.. can you guys please give me a PUBLIC LASHING.. let me have it guys... I NEED A MASSIVE KICK IN THE A$$.

ABUSE ACCEPTED.... im ready... I deserve it. I need to pull my head in...
 

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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Deadly_Assassin

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na public lashing wont do u any good, ur punishment is to approach 10 more women in the next couple of days to make up for that night.
 

DJBen

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You just missed out on the best **** of your life, because you couldnt grab your balls and blurt out ANY kind of coherant sentance in the slightest!!!

Right, now I've done the slagging, go into town tomorrow and do some cold approaches. The best way is just to bounce back up again!
 

dockta

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Thanks guys.. your right... i think i did the trick for myself.. me making that post and then reading it.. is a lashing in itself.

I Gonna Bounce Back.

DJBen.... howdy partner!! :)
 

"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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rhsarrow17

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it's happened to the best of us, bro.

I was at camp for 7 weeks last summer and on the last night all 20 dorm girls started making out with all the club guys. did I join in? no.

some friends of mine made out with 5, 6, or 7 different girls in this 10 minutes.

me? zero.

BEAT THAT.
 

MrCode

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We've all been there (God knows I have), but just remember the immortal quote:
Hesitation leads to masturbation.
 

“The 22 Rules That Flip the Script With Women… And How You Can Use Them Tonight”

Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.

Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers.  Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.

I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.

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