"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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Please Bit*h-Slap Me..HARD

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dockta

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Well, i did it again..... as of late my work out in the field has been going... well.. better.... BUT.. yesterday evening.. i went out with a mate... and we went for a feed and then a bar.. great evening..! anyway.. my game was feeling strong.. smiles, ec.. etc.. but nothing much i wanted to pursue. I was feeling confident, slghtly coc*y etc. When i spotted these couple of hot HB9s (seperate incidents) got the smiles the EC, great signals.. and what do do.... NOTHING.. FUC*IN SQUAT!! why.. because i am a FUC*IN IDIOT. 2 great opportunities missed.

So.. can you guys please give me a PUBLIC LASHING.. let me have it guys... I NEED A MASSIVE KICK IN THE A$$.

ABUSE ACCEPTED.... im ready... I deserve it. I need to pull my head in...
 

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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Deadly_Assassin

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na public lashing wont do u any good, ur punishment is to approach 10 more women in the next couple of days to make up for that night.
 
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DJBen

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You just missed out on the best **** of your life, because you couldnt grab your balls and blurt out ANY kind of coherant sentance in the slightest!!!

Right, now I've done the slagging, go into town tomorrow and do some cold approaches. The best way is just to bounce back up again!
 
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dockta

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Thanks guys.. your right... i think i did the trick for myself.. me making that post and then reading it.. is a lashing in itself.

I Gonna Bounce Back.

DJBen.... howdy partner!! :)
 

"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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rhsarrow17

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it's happened to the best of us, bro.

I was at camp for 7 weeks last summer and on the last night all 20 dorm girls started making out with all the club guys. did I join in? no.

some friends of mine made out with 5, 6, or 7 different girls in this 10 minutes.

me? zero.

BEAT THAT.
 
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MrCode

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We've all been there (God knows I have), but just remember the immortal quote:
Hesitation leads to masturbation.
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"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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