forcerecon01
Master Don Juan
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Just feel gut wrenched now that Green Bay lost. Are you guys following the NFL? Whose your favorite team?
Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.
Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?
You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.
Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.
You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.
And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.
Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.
The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.
That FG was the stupidest football decision I've seen all year.Packers fan. Kicking the FG down by 8 and on TB's 8 yard line was dumb. Not to mention giving up a big pass play with a few ticks left before the half. Brady's the greatest but he didn't even have to play well because GB gave him short fields and easy matchups.
You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.
And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.
Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.
The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.
The cardinals gave the rays randy arozarena for almost nothing, then later the same year he hits more post season home runs than any player in history.Great year to be a Tampa Bay sports fan.
He is the reigning super bowl mvp. The only sensible decision for a defensive plan is to shut him down and make kc beat them some other way. I think it was michael vick that the 90s bucs would assign to a middle linebacker to as a sole responsibility just to shut down the qb run.Mahomes is on another planet
I was a Bucs fan from the beginning back in the 70s. (Yes I’m that old LOL).I lived in tampa in the 90s when the bucs finally started to not be a joke. When they were orange, the games would draw 10k people. My college would give away tickets, but no one wanted them. It's weird to root for tom brady, but i like seeing the team in another super bowl, where they will be huge underfogs btw.
Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.
She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.
Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.
So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.
The words come later. The impression comes first.
I thought he should have run it there too, he made a similar play last week against the Rams where he ran it. Would have been better than that lame pass he threw.Rodgers can still move, not like he used to...and is still accurate. A lot of people were wondering why he didn't scramble on 3rd and goal from the 8...20/20 hindsight from the couch though. Still, the Packers didn't lose because of Rodgers but because of sloppy defense and questionable coaching decisions.
And got engaged to Shailene Woodley.Go Pack Go ! Rodgers mvp
Happy for himAnd got engaged to Shailene Woodley.
She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.
You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.
She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.
The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.
no kiddinggiants all the way but damn brady is something else
He doesn't even seem to be the best quarterback, but somehow he always wins. It's like everything he touches turns to gold.giants all the way but damn brady is something else
I know totally what you mean. His ability to win it matters the most is unrivaled. His accomplishments make him undisputedly the greatest QB of all time –– if not the best player of all-time.He doesn't even seem to be the best quarterback, but somehow he always wins. It's like everything he touches turns to gold.
I'm not saying he's bad, he's unbelievably clutch. But it's not like he's dragging these teams over the finish line. Like in the Super Bowl the Bucs defense dominated KC like no other team has been able to. And there's Tom Brady to reap the benefits. He does his job but it's like there's some devilment at work with him.
I may be wrong about this, but I feel like if Brady was on the Pats this year, they still would have tanked. I gather that he left NE because he was tired of Belichick (who drives his players relentlessly and apparently didn't appreciate him). But it also looked like NE had finally run its course, and the talent was drying up. So he went to Tampa, which was loaded with talent but needed the QB. Good decision for him, but he also left Belichick with a bare cupboard, he left at the most convenient time.His first season without Belichick the Patriots tanked and he won the SB for his new team.
I think there's some truth to that. Evans, Brown, Godwinn, Gronkowsi. An efficient O-Line. A quarterback's wet dream.I may be wrong about this, but I feel like if Brady was on the Pats this year, they still would have tanked. I gather that he left NE because he was tired of Belichick (who drives his players relentlessly and apparently didn't appreciate him). But it also looked like NE had finally run its course, and the talent was drying up. So he went to Tampa, which was loaded with talent but needed the QB. Good decision for him, but he also left Belichick with a bare cupboard, he left at the most convenient time.
You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.
Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.
She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.
Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.