I would say she just wants you as an orbiter and an ego boost. Interested girls don't confuse you. Girls who are a waste of time will. But if you still aren't sure here is how to tell.Hey guys ,
I am dealing with an issue at the moment in which would be great if I could get some feedback from someone that is not invested as I am .
so basically the issue I am dealing is with a girl that is playing hard to get , and after she is hot then becomes cold . She even admitted that she is playing hard to get as “ she is not for everyone “ and things along this line .
Sometimes she is really warm and we have a great vibe , and then on purpose she becomes cold and becomes a ***** .
I never really showed that I am affected by this behavior and every time she started behaving this way I just back down and gave her room . Then I would reengage her after a couple of weeks and she would be super warm again .
what is annoying me is that she is behaving like this on purpose , as she admitted that she does this ***** moves on purpose .
the thing that I am missing right now if it there are any other options available besides to drop her .
I know for sure that she is attracted to me based on her behavior and she even admitted this a couple of times , but this behavior of her that she does on purpose started to be quite annoying .
what you guys think is the best move forward without dropping the nuke and just ignore her ?
Stop re-engaging her. Go no contact. 100% nothing. No text no phone no text no social media. Nothing. No replies no likes no answering messages nothing.
You pull the plug even before she goes cold.
If she doesn"'t reach out after a week or two then you have your answer. She was wasting your time.
If she is truly interested she will miss you and reach out. If she doesn't then you cut ties and move on.