"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"

When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.

Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.

Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.

The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.

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Playing guitar, what is your favorite song to serenade for her?

Dutchy

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Hi guys,

I learned to play guitar and the girls really like it. I play the chords of the song and sing the song.

Some songs I find good to play are:

Your song - Elton John
Let me love you - Mario
Eagles - Hotel California

But of course there are many more songs you can play.

To all you guitar playing Don Juan's, what is your favorite song to play for the girls, and why?

Greetz from Holland:up:
 

"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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drummer

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You could always figure out a song she likes and do a really bad rendition of it (make sure you are purosely and obviously sucking) This kind of goes along with the idea of singing really badly (obviously and purposely, again) to a song on the radio. With both of these, heaing the song again will make you or her think of the other person and how much fun you had.
 

Francisco d'Anconia

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Smack My ***** Up - Prodigy :up:
 

"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."

Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.

Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?

You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.

Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.

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Kidd

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man forget picking songs for girls

i just shred!
 

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Kidd said:
man forget picking songs for girls

i just shred!
Hell yeah, shredding is the way to go.
 

dannowillbookem

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i want to grow old with you - adam sandler

haha

free fallin - tom petty
here comes the sun - beatles (if you get the fingering down right its pretty impressive)
 

Nzo

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that your beautiful song is really easy to play if you learn the tabs, someone whose enver played guitar before could learn it in an hour
 

"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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gravstar

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stairway to heaven, led zepplin
 

GaryUranga

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I wouldnt serenade anyone, thought I think it would be a cool idea to play some songs and sings if lets say youre with friends and a girl you like happens to be there and youve been attracting, assuming youve done it right and she digs you and you play for an audience, not her directly of course (just my way of doing things) then shell be totally into that.
 

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