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The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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Playing guitar, what is your favorite song to serenade for her?

Dutchy

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Hi guys,

I learned to play guitar and the girls really like it. I play the chords of the song and sing the song.

Some songs I find good to play are:

Your song - Elton John
Let me love you - Mario
Eagles - Hotel California

But of course there are many more songs you can play.

To all you guitar playing Don Juan's, what is your favorite song to play for the girls, and why?

Greetz from Holland:up:
 

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drummer

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You could always figure out a song she likes and do a really bad rendition of it (make sure you are purosely and obviously sucking) This kind of goes along with the idea of singing really badly (obviously and purposely, again) to a song on the radio. With both of these, heaing the song again will make you or her think of the other person and how much fun you had.
 

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Smack My ***** Up - Prodigy :up:
 

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Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.

Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers.  Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.

I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.

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Kidd

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man forget picking songs for girls

i just shred!
 

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Kidd said:
man forget picking songs for girls

i just shred!
Hell yeah, shredding is the way to go.
 

dannowillbookem

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i want to grow old with you - adam sandler

haha

free fallin - tom petty
here comes the sun - beatles (if you get the fingering down right its pretty impressive)
 

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that your beautiful song is really easy to play if you learn the tabs, someone whose enver played guitar before could learn it in an hour
 

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You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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stairway to heaven, led zepplin
 

GaryUranga

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I wouldnt serenade anyone, thought I think it would be a cool idea to play some songs and sings if lets say youre with friends and a girl you like happens to be there and youve been attracting, assuming youve done it right and she digs you and you play for an audience, not her directly of course (just my way of doing things) then shell be totally into that.
 

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