Why "Whatever You Want" Keeps You Single

She says the movie looks dumb; you suddenly agree. She tests you with a little attitude; you apologize for nothing.

You think you're being easy to get along with. She reads something else entirely: a man with no edges. Nothing to hold on to. No friction, no tension, no reason to wonder what he really thinks.

The "22 Rules" taught me to push back — playfully, calmly, without needing her approval. Strange things happened after that.

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Playing guitar, what is your favorite song to serenade for her?

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Hi guys,

I learned to play guitar and the girls really like it. I play the chords of the song and sing the song.

Some songs I find good to play are:

Your song - Elton John
Let me love you - Mario
Eagles - Hotel California

But of course there are many more songs you can play.

To all you guitar playing Don Juan's, what is your favorite song to play for the girls, and why?

Greetz from Holland:up:
 

"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."

Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.

Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?

You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.

Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.

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drummer

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You could always figure out a song she likes and do a really bad rendition of it (make sure you are purosely and obviously sucking) This kind of goes along with the idea of singing really badly (obviously and purposely, again) to a song on the radio. With both of these, heaing the song again will make you or her think of the other person and how much fun you had.
 
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Francisco d'Anconia

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Smack My ***** Up - Prodigy :up:
 

"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"

When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.

Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.

Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.

The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.

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Kidd

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man forget picking songs for girls

i just shred!
 
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Kidd said:
man forget picking songs for girls

i just shred!
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Hell yeah, shredding is the way to go.
 
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i want to grow old with you - adam sandler

haha

free fallin - tom petty
here comes the sun - beatles (if you get the fingering down right its pretty impressive)
 
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that your beautiful song is really easy to play if you learn the tabs, someone whose enver played guitar before could learn it in an hour
 

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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stairway to heaven, led zepplin
 
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I wouldnt serenade anyone, thought I think it would be a cool idea to play some songs and sings if lets say youre with friends and a girl you like happens to be there and youve been attracting, assuming youve done it right and she digs you and you play for an audience, not her directly of course (just my way of doing things) then shell be totally into that.
 
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