wifehunter
Master Don Juan
I'm starting to realise the benefits and entertainment value of pretending to be stupid. It's gotten my out of some sticky situations, where being smart, I would have made myself unnecessarily vulnerable.
"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"
Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.
She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.
Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.
So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.
The words come later. The impression comes first.
Playing dumb...
- Thread starter wifehunter
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"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"
Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."
You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.
She's been waiting forty minutes.
Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.
wifehunter
Master Don Juan
Mission Accomplished.Don't worry, no one here thinks you're smart
ImTheDoubleGreatest!
Master Don Juan
I second this. People believe you aren't as smart so they end up talking and acting more freely around you, which allows you to see who they really are. When people think you aren't as smart as you really are, you learn more about how things ACTUALLY are. Very useful. I've done it hundreds of times and people feel more comfortable around me sometimes too. Little do they know.....
As for women, they think I am naturally a certain way despite being consciously aware of whatever I'm doing. They'll say stuff like 'are you doing that on purpose?' And I'll be like 'wait what? What do you mean?' And they think that I'm naturally a certain way and love me more for it, they think they're so smart and that they've figured me out.
You have full control over somebody once they THINK they have control.
As for women, they think I am naturally a certain way despite being consciously aware of whatever I'm doing. They'll say stuff like 'are you doing that on purpose?' And I'll be like 'wait what? What do you mean?' And they think that I'm naturally a certain way and love me more for it, they think they're so smart and that they've figured me out.
You have full control over somebody once they THINK they have control.
"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"
She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.
You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.
She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.
The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.
It's a law of power.
Law 21: Play a sucker to catch a sucker, seem dumber than your mark.
http://48laws-of-power.blogspot.com.es/2011/05/law-21-play-sucker-to-catch-sucker-seem.html
Law 21: Play a sucker to catch a sucker, seem dumber than your mark.
http://48laws-of-power.blogspot.com.es/2011/05/law-21-play-sucker-to-catch-sucker-seem.html
Lol I do this all the time
A women would swear I'm just an ordinary guy with a sh!tty job until she finds out what I do. Shocked look on her face, priceless. But I often do this to women to see her character, let her think she's figured me out. You'd be surprised how often women take advantage of a dumb guy.
A women would swear I'm just an ordinary guy with a sh!tty job until she finds out what I do. Shocked look on her face, priceless. But I often do this to women to see her character, let her think she's figured me out. You'd be surprised how often women take advantage of a dumb guy.