"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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wifehunter

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I'm starting to realise the benefits and entertainment value of pretending to be stupid. It's gotten my out of some sticky situations, where being smart, I would have made myself unnecessarily vulnerable.
 

"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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ImTheDoubleGreatest!

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I second this. People believe you aren't as smart so they end up talking and acting more freely around you, which allows you to see who they really are. When people think you aren't as smart as you really are, you learn more about how things ACTUALLY are. Very useful. I've done it hundreds of times and people feel more comfortable around me sometimes too. Little do they know.....

As for women, they think I am naturally a certain way despite being consciously aware of whatever I'm doing. They'll say stuff like 'are you doing that on purpose?' And I'll be like 'wait what? What do you mean?' And they think that I'm naturally a certain way and love me more for it, they think they're so smart and that they've figured me out.

You have full control over somebody once they THINK they have control.
 

"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

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Lol I do this all the time

A women would swear I'm just an ordinary guy with a sh!tty job until she finds out what I do. Shocked look on her face, priceless. But I often do this to women to see her character, let her think she's figured me out. You'd be surprised how often women take advantage of a dumb guy.
 
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