"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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wifehunter

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I'm starting to realise the benefits and entertainment value of pretending to be stupid. It's gotten my out of some sticky situations, where being smart, I would have made myself unnecessarily vulnerable.
 

“The 22 Rules That Flip the Script With Women… And How You Can Use Them Tonight”

Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.

Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers.  Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.

I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.

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ImTheDoubleGreatest!

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I second this. People believe you aren't as smart so they end up talking and acting more freely around you, which allows you to see who they really are. When people think you aren't as smart as you really are, you learn more about how things ACTUALLY are. Very useful. I've done it hundreds of times and people feel more comfortable around me sometimes too. Little do they know.....

As for women, they think I am naturally a certain way despite being consciously aware of whatever I'm doing. They'll say stuff like 'are you doing that on purpose?' And I'll be like 'wait what? What do you mean?' And they think that I'm naturally a certain way and love me more for it, they think they're so smart and that they've figured me out.

You have full control over somebody once they THINK they have control.
 

"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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Lol I do this all the time

A women would swear I'm just an ordinary guy with a sh!tty job until she finds out what I do. Shocked look on her face, priceless. But I often do this to women to see her character, let her think she's figured me out. You'd be surprised how often women take advantage of a dumb guy.
 
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