"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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Playing a BPD

SkrooU

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I have a low tolerance for BS in any kind of relationship (love, friendship, business, family). So I've never had the misfortune of suffering from the BPD chick. I've met my share and checked out instantly. I've probably nexted a few women that were just playing some game they read in a terrible article about how to attract and keep a good man. Like I said, no tolerance.

But, there's this chick that knows nothing about me other than my cell number, which isn't linked to anything she could use. I just want to hit it, and if it's good, just keep her as a plate for as long as I can be invisible or get tired of her. I went out with her a few weeks ago, and the next day she was texting me non-stop and sent me pics of her in her panties. Then she asked if I was looking for a girlfriend. I decided she texted me too much and told her I had just received a job offer out of state. So I texted her today, feeling like I'm up for the challenge of getting in her pants. She offers to meet up instantly, but I'm working, so she gets upset and wants to know what's up with the game playing. So now I'm remembering why I nexted her before. But I just want to bang her anyway.

Anybody have experience doing this?
 

"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."

Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.

Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?

You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.

Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.

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xstang77

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Yea are there more issues that makes you think she's actually bpd? Not all of them love bomb and try to love you instantly.
 
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