"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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Playing a BPD

SkrooU

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I have a low tolerance for BS in any kind of relationship (love, friendship, business, family). So I've never had the misfortune of suffering from the BPD chick. I've met my share and checked out instantly. I've probably nexted a few women that were just playing some game they read in a terrible article about how to attract and keep a good man. Like I said, no tolerance.

But, there's this chick that knows nothing about me other than my cell number, which isn't linked to anything she could use. I just want to hit it, and if it's good, just keep her as a plate for as long as I can be invisible or get tired of her. I went out with her a few weeks ago, and the next day she was texting me non-stop and sent me pics of her in her panties. Then she asked if I was looking for a girlfriend. I decided she texted me too much and told her I had just received a job offer out of state. So I texted her today, feeling like I'm up for the challenge of getting in her pants. She offers to meet up instantly, but I'm working, so she gets upset and wants to know what's up with the game playing. So now I'm remembering why I nexted her before. But I just want to bang her anyway.

Anybody have experience doing this?
 

"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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xstang77

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Yea are there more issues that makes you think she's actually bpd? Not all of them love bomb and try to love you instantly.
 
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