"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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Playing a BPD

SkrooU

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I have a low tolerance for BS in any kind of relationship (love, friendship, business, family). So I've never had the misfortune of suffering from the BPD chick. I've met my share and checked out instantly. I've probably nexted a few women that were just playing some game they read in a terrible article about how to attract and keep a good man. Like I said, no tolerance.

But, there's this chick that knows nothing about me other than my cell number, which isn't linked to anything she could use. I just want to hit it, and if it's good, just keep her as a plate for as long as I can be invisible or get tired of her. I went out with her a few weeks ago, and the next day she was texting me non-stop and sent me pics of her in her panties. Then she asked if I was looking for a girlfriend. I decided she texted me too much and told her I had just received a job offer out of state. So I texted her today, feeling like I'm up for the challenge of getting in her pants. She offers to meet up instantly, but I'm working, so she gets upset and wants to know what's up with the game playing. So now I'm remembering why I nexted her before. But I just want to bang her anyway.

Anybody have experience doing this?
 

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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xstang77

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Yea are there more issues that makes you think she's actually bpd? Not all of them love bomb and try to love you instantly.
 
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