"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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Playing 2 games I am unfamiliar with (facebook) I need advice

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So I'm not into this internet thing to get women but I've been hearing about guys sleeping with girls they met on facebook and I am pretty big fan of facebook.

So I decided to use a line I really liked from mystery on this girl who looked gorgeous on facebook. I can't see her profile, only that little profile picture. I never used the line before so I don't know what to respond... I thought she would be asking me questions but it didn't work out that way. So I sent this message to her:

Is beauty really in the eye of the beholder?

Hi Laura, I came across your profile picture and I think you look really attractive but beauty is common. If you don't mind me asking. What do you have going for yourself besides looks?


She responded...


i'm a professional dancer, i've been dancing for ten years and now have my own dance team. I'm an esthetician and makeup artist and i've been appointed one of canada's top ten makeup artist. I do have a small buisness for esthetics where i go to peoples homes and do basic esthetics. I work full time at an optical clinic where i'm office manager, i work hard. i never have "just looks" as you quoted, i'm always working on some project. so i would say i have a lot going for me


Which I think is good news... I just don't know what to do at this point! haha.
She is giving me A LOT to work with but she looks almost offended, so I have to play this with tact. I definitely have her in the palm of my hand, I just don't know what to do now for her not to fleet away.


I think that is great exercise for the real world.


Suggestions?


DZ
 

"You Can't Argue a Woman Into Liking You"

You made your case like a lawyer. Stable job. Good guy. Ready for something real. All true. All irrelevant.

She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.

Logic is where attraction goes to die. The "22 Rules" work a level deeper, on the subconscious switches that decide within minutes whether you register as a MAN or as part of the furniture.

Stop presenting evidence. Start flipping switches.

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ok, any advice that can be constructive or at least somewhat helpful?
 
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First things first....What kind of dance? Tell her you're interested in learning and see if she can give you private lessons.
 
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That was a very corny opening line, you could have came a lot better than that. But hey she replied and put time into it.. so she's investing...
 
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Why don't you give her something, now that she's passed that "test".

"Hey, thanks for responding. I didn't mean to come off corny before, it's just that there's a plethora of nice looking girls on here, with nothing else to their personality. It's refreshing to find someone so motivated and dedicated to what they do"...
 

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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WesCottII said:
Why don't you give her something, now that she's passed that "test".

"Hey, thanks for responding. I didn't mean to come off corny before, it's just that there's a plethora of nice looking girls on here, with nothing else to their personality. It's refreshing to find someone so motivated and dedicated to what they do"...
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oooooh, I like that, keep em coming.
 
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WesCottII said:
Why don't you give her something, now that she's passed that "test".

"Hey, thanks for responding. I didn't mean to come off corny before, it's just that there's a plethora of nice looking girls on here, with nothing else to their personality. It's refreshing to find someone so motivated and dedicated to what they do"...
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"It's refreshing"? lol So you're going to apologize for being corny and then go and drop an even cornier line? I wouldn't go that route...
 
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I wouldn't apologize, but I don't see how it is corny on saying that it is refreshing to meet a girl that is more than just her hair.

I wouldn't word it the same way, but the idea is there.

punish bad behavior and reward good behavior.
 
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