Forget the cash, the cars, and the chiseled jawlines. Female desire operates on a completely different frequency. Primal. Subconscious. Triggers that bypass her logic and hit her on a gut level. Most guys are totally blind to them.
I know because I was one of them. The overthinking. The paralysis. The silent drive home kicking yourself for freezing up. Watching average guys walk away with the girl while you stood there stuck in your own head.
Then I decoded the psychology behind what actually makes women tick. 22 hard rules. Subtle behavioral shifts that rewired my entire reality. The anxiety evaporated. Women started leaning in. Investing. Chasing.
You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.
For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.
Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.
The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.
Wasn't intended for you, sorry. On the topic however..Originally posted by So pimp its scary
I don't go to ASF, so this has nothing to do with which board is better... not everyone is noobs, but I've not qualms about pointing it out... just the same way that the true players set me straight when I first joined.
You and the person you quote truly do not get the point that I am trying to make... Even in my b!tching and complaining, there is a message in there, for those willing to read between the lines. No, the posts will not change, the questions will always be the same from the noobs... BUT every so often someone with the glimmer of promise shows up coming from the right state of mind and asking the right questions... these are the people that are getting flooded out and are the ones that deserve to have their questions answered because asking the right questions always leads to the right result.
The problem is that I've used my eyes, and I see the truth... I'm just trying to share the turth with people that are in the same situation I was in almost 5 years ago now when I first started reading this website.
It wasn't meant so much as an attack, just that this is frustrating... wanting to help people out, but losing the very means through which I can help teach.Originally posted by Docs
Wasn't intended for you, sorry. On the topic however..
I do see the point, so I do not see the purpose of the attack, unless purely accidental. I wouldn't of written a post if it wasn't to point out the same things you just said. Meh I say.
Somebody (maybe We) should really collaberate on a thread of people to ask questions to, or even a external shared email address or something. That would make it ample easy for people scared to speak out, or afraid of getting flamed, or worse yet, losing the thread in the pages of history.
Persay?
That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?
She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."
She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.
I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.
Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.