"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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i think people who post threads like this should be banned.
 

"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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We had a meeting and decided to give up trying to help because nobody listened and we were flammed for everything. So we created our own private board and a few of us have dispersed and are writing for other boards now.



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Originally posted by So pimp its scary
I don't go to ASF, so this has nothing to do with which board is better... not everyone is noobs, but I've not qualms about pointing it out... just the same way that the true players set me straight when I first joined.

You and the person you quote truly do not get the point that I am trying to make... Even in my b!tching and complaining, there is a message in there, for those willing to read between the lines. No, the posts will not change, the questions will always be the same from the noobs... BUT every so often someone with the glimmer of promise shows up coming from the right state of mind and asking the right questions... these are the people that are getting flooded out and are the ones that deserve to have their questions answered because asking the right questions always leads to the right result.

The problem is that I've used my eyes, and I see the truth... I'm just trying to share the turth with people that are in the same situation I was in almost 5 years ago now when I first started reading this website.
Wasn't intended for you, sorry. On the topic however..

I do see the point, so I do not see the purpose of the attack, unless purely accidental. I wouldn't of written a post if it wasn't to point out the same things you just said. Meh I say.

Somebody (maybe We) should really collaberate on a thread of people to ask questions to, or even a external shared email address or something. That would make it ample easy for people scared to speak out, or afraid of getting flamed, or worse yet, losing the thread in the pages of history.

Persay?
 

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Originally posted by Docs
Wasn't intended for you, sorry. On the topic however..

I do see the point, so I do not see the purpose of the attack, unless purely accidental. I wouldn't of written a post if it wasn't to point out the same things you just said. Meh I say.

Somebody (maybe We) should really collaberate on a thread of people to ask questions to, or even a external shared email address or something. That would make it ample easy for people scared to speak out, or afraid of getting flamed, or worse yet, losing the thread in the pages of history.

Persay?
It wasn't meant so much as an attack, just that this is frustrating... wanting to help people out, but losing the very means through which I can help teach.

I had started working on an overall recapping of game, what it is, how it works, how to play, what the rules are, etc... I've wrote nearly 30 pages before I lost track... a collabortive effort to get it completed with validation from other people that know what they are talking about, and someone to write it as elloquently as possible.

On the scope that I'm thinking would essentially be to rewrite the entire DJ bible. Scrap it and start it from scratch,,, mods will probably hate that idea, the only ****ty part would be losing all of those pook posts that are so awesomley written... so perhaps an aside to the DJ bible, yet fully self-contained on its own.

Such an endeavour would likely be the last for of input into this website, because even that would be quickly drowned out be the series of useless questions.
 

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That's pretty cool, just remember that it has to offer more then one view at things. There are many ways to improve, many ways to walk into a situation, MANY methods that have to be touched on. It's truly a intensive project and I commend you on such a project.

As for the Pook posts, and other such goodies, there's a such thing as...

For more information..see (this part is linked) Pook - Fifteen Lessons

or

Ref: who, title, (Linked....)

:)
 

"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

Read more...

So pimp its scary

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Definately this is a lot of a huger project than I had first expected.

Except with the way things are going... some of the dumbas$es on this site are going to reject it saying that it doesn't all comply with what they learned from others ;ole <ystery amd David D.
 
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