She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.
Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.
The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.
I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.
The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.
Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.
Wasn't intended for you, sorry. On the topic however..Originally posted by So pimp its scary
I don't go to ASF, so this has nothing to do with which board is better... not everyone is noobs, but I've not qualms about pointing it out... just the same way that the true players set me straight when I first joined.
You and the person you quote truly do not get the point that I am trying to make... Even in my b!tching and complaining, there is a message in there, for those willing to read between the lines. No, the posts will not change, the questions will always be the same from the noobs... BUT every so often someone with the glimmer of promise shows up coming from the right state of mind and asking the right questions... these are the people that are getting flooded out and are the ones that deserve to have their questions answered because asking the right questions always leads to the right result.
The problem is that I've used my eyes, and I see the truth... I'm just trying to share the turth with people that are in the same situation I was in almost 5 years ago now when I first started reading this website.
It wasn't meant so much as an attack, just that this is frustrating... wanting to help people out, but losing the very means through which I can help teach.Originally posted by Docs
Wasn't intended for you, sorry. On the topic however..
I do see the point, so I do not see the purpose of the attack, unless purely accidental. I wouldn't of written a post if it wasn't to point out the same things you just said. Meh I say.
Somebody (maybe We) should really collaberate on a thread of people to ask questions to, or even a external shared email address or something. That would make it ample easy for people scared to speak out, or afraid of getting flamed, or worse yet, losing the thread in the pages of history.
Persay?
She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.
Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.
The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.