Player friend's advice differs heavily from forum advice

[mrgoodstuff]

till a certain point

if he is a simp , his good looks will not really help him that much , or till a certain point

There are celebrity "simps"....

 

[Bigpapa]

There are celebrity "simps"....

but it does not mean that they also sleep with whomever . From time to time they just get lucky , and usually with not that attractive women

and women just see it as a way to boost their self esteem , and brag about how cool they are

and I think that prince Harry is the best example of a celebrity simp , dating an average looking and old woman

 

[Velasco]

0:07 - 0:17

 

[mrgoodstuff]

but it does not mean that they also sleep with whomever . From time to time they just get lucky , and usually with not that attractive women

and women just see it as a way to boost their self esteem , and brag about how cool they are

and I think that prince Harry is the best example of a celebrity simp , dating an average looking and old woman

A celebrity simp can pull b extremely hot women. He will fvck her. But he will be manipulated and used by her.

 

[Glassguy]

Now I know a lot of guys on this forum get plenty of action, but so does my friend, and his approach is vastly different.

He's very patient. I've seen text messages from his phone where girls have given him excuses on why they can't hang out, but he keeps talking to them and ends up banging most of them. Some he ended up dating for a while. I ask him why he sticks around when women are flaking and he says "Most of the time they're testing you to see how you react."

He also rarely gets physical right away. I've been in bars with him, and he doesn't do much kino on women, or try to escalate. He just acts normal. I said "Doesn't being aggressive shows confidence?" He said "No, it just scares them off. Women get turned on over time, in stages."

He told me he also likes to become a girl's friend before trying to sleep with them. This one I really don't understand. I told him "aren't you worried about falling in the friendzone??" He laughed and said "What's wrong with showing a girl your personality?"

I've been on this forum for years and still struggling, and my friend who is doing the opposite of what you guys say is doing just fine. I've seen this first hand for myself the chicks he's gotten.

There's a chick he's currently trying to get with. Tonight he's meeting up with her at a lounge, and she's going to be there with two of her girlfriends. I said to him earlier today "Why would you ever agree to that?? That isn't a date." He said "What's the big deal? She's just trying to see how I handle myself in a social situation around her friends."

What I notice is that what guys on this forum see as lack of interest, he just sees a sh!t test that needs to be passed.

I'm just so confused, and really don't know what kind of game I should running.

I agree with most except the friend zone. Thats a big no no.

Showing a woman your intent is perfectly fine. So is being patient and displaying a DGAF attitude. They flake? Who cares. There is no need to act like all beta males and throw a fit on her.

But there is a major difference in showing intent and chasing. Chasing will leave you dead in the water.

It all comes down to options. If you have abundance in options, its easier to remain calm and collected around women.

 

[Lookatu]

But there is a major difference in showing intent and chasing. Chasing will leave you dead in the water.

I agree. Initiating and chasing are two separate things.

I believe it was you that used the tennis analogy? They have to be willing participants in playing tennis. If you hit the ball over the net, they need to be willing to hit it back. If you're constantly hitting balls over the net without getting it returned, there is no tennis game going on and you're not going to get anywhere.

I only choose to focus on girls that are willing to play tennis with me.

 

[Rainman4707]

Brad Pitt could act needy as fvck. Still wouldn't matter.

Hmm thats strange, because the local hotty has a ton of really good looking men to choose from, but she just chose the local drug dealer who is a 4ft ginger dwarf

 

[BackInTheGame78]

Hmm thats strange, because the local hotty has a ton of really good looking men to choose from, but she just chose the local drug dealer who is a 4ft ginger dwarf

Because none of those other guys are giving her strung out ass free drugs.