"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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Plate's friend tried to c0ckblock me - should I talk to plate about it?

Eph

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So, over the past few weeks one of my "friends" somehow found out about one of my plates and proceeded to tell another friend about it. Before this year I hadn't really talked to girls as much as I do now, so they don't believe I can get girls (which is funny because I can already spot their mistakes with their plates). On top of that, I don't talk to her in that class for various reasons - top reason being I really don't get a chance to move closer to her because of the instructor - so they're always trying to get me to talk to her just to prove to them that I can.

Then, it spread a little more to other people in the class until the snowball reached its climax: one of the plate's "friends" was listening in, asked one of the guys who we were talking about, and then went over to talk to the plate about it.

I was going to ask the plate what her friend asked her, and probably inevitably try to save face. I didn't get the chance to, so I thought I'd ask SS what is the right move here?

I know I shouldn't care but it irritates me when private matters go public.
 
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"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

Read more...

thatfeel

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Just continue to act outcome independent. Don't let it get to you and if it does do NOT show it.
 

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what the fvck have I just read???
 
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