"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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Plate's friend tried to c0ckblock me - should I talk to plate about it?

Eph

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So, over the past few weeks one of my "friends" somehow found out about one of my plates and proceeded to tell another friend about it. Before this year I hadn't really talked to girls as much as I do now, so they don't believe I can get girls (which is funny because I can already spot their mistakes with their plates). On top of that, I don't talk to her in that class for various reasons - top reason being I really don't get a chance to move closer to her because of the instructor - so they're always trying to get me to talk to her just to prove to them that I can.

Then, it spread a little more to other people in the class until the snowball reached its climax: one of the plate's "friends" was listening in, asked one of the guys who we were talking about, and then went over to talk to the plate about it.

I was going to ask the plate what her friend asked her, and probably inevitably try to save face. I didn't get the chance to, so I thought I'd ask SS what is the right move here?

I know I shouldn't care but it irritates me when private matters go public.
 
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"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

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Just continue to act outcome independent. Don't let it get to you and if it does do NOT show it.
 

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what the fvck have I just read???
 
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