"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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Plate's friend tried to c0ckblock me - should I talk to plate about it?

Eph

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So, over the past few weeks one of my "friends" somehow found out about one of my plates and proceeded to tell another friend about it. Before this year I hadn't really talked to girls as much as I do now, so they don't believe I can get girls (which is funny because I can already spot their mistakes with their plates). On top of that, I don't talk to her in that class for various reasons - top reason being I really don't get a chance to move closer to her because of the instructor - so they're always trying to get me to talk to her just to prove to them that I can.

Then, it spread a little more to other people in the class until the snowball reached its climax: one of the plate's "friends" was listening in, asked one of the guys who we were talking about, and then went over to talk to the plate about it.

I was going to ask the plate what her friend asked her, and probably inevitably try to save face. I didn't get the chance to, so I thought I'd ask SS what is the right move here?

I know I shouldn't care but it irritates me when private matters go public.
 
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"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."

Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.

Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?

You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.

Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.

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Just continue to act outcome independent. Don't let it get to you and if it does do NOT show it.
 

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what the fvck have I just read???
 
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