"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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Plate got beta bucks "ltr" But keeps contacting me

Infern0

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So I had this plate for a while, but she has demonstrated cluster B traits so was never getting upgraded which I told her several times (and she loved, cluster b's lol)

Anyway she got a beta bucks boyfriend like a week ago which is all good but she keeps contacting me. I've been real short but polite but just trying not to engage but she's been amping up the attention seeking with seductive selfies and heart emojis etc.

Today I get a text "do you hate me cos I'm with beta bucks "

What's the deal here, I figured she had a brain.

NB

I don't want to be the guy she cheats with, for me if a girl starts a ltr I will respect the dude she's with and break off contact, even if he's AFC. I would probably hook up with her down the road when she's single again though, she's a decent plate.
 

"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

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dude99

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So I had this plate for a while, but she has demonstrated cluster B traits so was never getting upgraded which I told her several times (and she loved, cluster b's lol)

Anyway she got a beta bucks boyfriend like a week ago which is all good but she keeps contacting me. I've been real short but polite but just trying not to engage but she's been amping up the attention seeking with seductive selfies and heart emojis etc.

Today I get a text "do you hate me cos I'm with beta bucks "

What's the deal here, I figured she had a brain.

NB

I don't want to be the guy she cheats with, for me if a girl starts a ltr I will respect the dude she's with and break off contact, even if he's AFC. I would probably hook up with her down the road when she's single again though, she's a decent plate.
You made yourself a challenge. Women are drawn in by a guy who is a challenge. She will now move mountains to get back to you because you are showing lower and lower interest.

If you want to be rid of her act like a needy beta boy and watch how fast she dissappears
 

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I am with you, I won't mess with a girl that's in a relationship. Sounds like a fresh relationship though, so maybe they are jsut dating?

You could be straight and say that you don't mess with girls who are taken? She dumps him and stays as a plate, or she cuts you off. Save the beta bucks guy the eventual heartbreak?
 

ImTheDoubleGreatest!

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Tell her that. "I gotta respect a man in a relationship. I'll only fvck you if you're single." or something like that. Then she can break it off with her ltr and you 2 can start fvcking again. I don't see the downside to this.
 
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"You Can't Argue a Woman Into Liking You"

You made your case like a lawyer. Stable job. Good guy. Ready for something real. All true. All irrelevant.

She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.

Logic is where attraction goes to die. The "22 Rules" work a level deeper, on the subconscious switches that decide within minutes whether you register as a MAN or as part of the furniture.

Stop presenting evidence. Start flipping switches.

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