“The 22 Rules That Flip the Script With Women… And How You Can Use Them Tonight”

Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.

Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers.  Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.

I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.

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Plate got beta bucks "ltr" But keeps contacting me

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So I had this plate for a while, but she has demonstrated cluster B traits so was never getting upgraded which I told her several times (and she loved, cluster b's lol)

Anyway she got a beta bucks boyfriend like a week ago which is all good but she keeps contacting me. I've been real short but polite but just trying not to engage but she's been amping up the attention seeking with seductive selfies and heart emojis etc.

Today I get a text "do you hate me cos I'm with beta bucks "

What's the deal here, I figured she had a brain.

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I don't want to be the guy she cheats with, for me if a girl starts a ltr I will respect the dude she's with and break off contact, even if he's AFC. I would probably hook up with her down the road when she's single again though, she's a decent plate.
 

What happens, IN HER MIND, is that she comes to see you as WORTHLESS simply because she hasn't had to INVEST anything in you in order to get you or to keep you.

You were an interesting diversion while she had nothing else to do. But now that someone a little more valuable has come along, someone who expects her to treat him very well, she'll have no problem at all dropping you or demoting you to lowly "friendship" status.

Quote taken from The SoSuave Guide to Women and Dating, which you can read for FREE.

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So I had this plate for a while, but she has demonstrated cluster B traits so was never getting upgraded which I told her several times (and she loved, cluster b's lol)

Anyway she got a beta bucks boyfriend like a week ago which is all good but she keeps contacting me. I've been real short but polite but just trying not to engage but she's been amping up the attention seeking with seductive selfies and heart emojis etc.

Today I get a text "do you hate me cos I'm with beta bucks "

What's the deal here, I figured she had a brain.

NB

I don't want to be the guy she cheats with, for me if a girl starts a ltr I will respect the dude she's with and break off contact, even if he's AFC. I would probably hook up with her down the road when she's single again though, she's a decent plate.
You made yourself a challenge. Women are drawn in by a guy who is a challenge. She will now move mountains to get back to you because you are showing lower and lower interest.

If you want to be rid of her act like a needy beta boy and watch how fast she dissappears
 

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I am with you, I won't mess with a girl that's in a relationship. Sounds like a fresh relationship though, so maybe they are jsut dating?

You could be straight and say that you don't mess with girls who are taken? She dumps him and stays as a plate, or she cuts you off. Save the beta bucks guy the eventual heartbreak?
 

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Tell her that. "I gotta respect a man in a relationship. I'll only fvck you if you're single." or something like that. Then she can break it off with her ltr and you 2 can start fvcking again. I don't see the downside to this.
 
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Just because a woman listens to you and acts interested in what you say doesn't mean she really is. She might just be acting polite, while silently wishing that the date would hurry up and end, or that you would go away... and never come back.

Quote taken from The SoSuave Guide to Women and Dating, which you can read for FREE.

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