"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

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Plate got beta bucks "ltr" But keeps contacting me

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So I had this plate for a while, but she has demonstrated cluster B traits so was never getting upgraded which I told her several times (and she loved, cluster b's lol)

Anyway she got a beta bucks boyfriend like a week ago which is all good but she keeps contacting me. I've been real short but polite but just trying not to engage but she's been amping up the attention seeking with seductive selfies and heart emojis etc.

Today I get a text "do you hate me cos I'm with beta bucks "

What's the deal here, I figured she had a brain.

NB

I don't want to be the guy she cheats with, for me if a girl starts a ltr I will respect the dude she's with and break off contact, even if he's AFC. I would probably hook up with her down the road when she's single again though, she's a decent plate.
 

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Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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So I had this plate for a while, but she has demonstrated cluster B traits so was never getting upgraded which I told her several times (and she loved, cluster b's lol)

Anyway she got a beta bucks boyfriend like a week ago which is all good but she keeps contacting me. I've been real short but polite but just trying not to engage but she's been amping up the attention seeking with seductive selfies and heart emojis etc.

Today I get a text "do you hate me cos I'm with beta bucks "

What's the deal here, I figured she had a brain.

NB

I don't want to be the guy she cheats with, for me if a girl starts a ltr I will respect the dude she's with and break off contact, even if he's AFC. I would probably hook up with her down the road when she's single again though, she's a decent plate.
You made yourself a challenge. Women are drawn in by a guy who is a challenge. She will now move mountains to get back to you because you are showing lower and lower interest.

If you want to be rid of her act like a needy beta boy and watch how fast she dissappears
 

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I am with you, I won't mess with a girl that's in a relationship. Sounds like a fresh relationship though, so maybe they are jsut dating?

You could be straight and say that you don't mess with girls who are taken? She dumps him and stays as a plate, or she cuts you off. Save the beta bucks guy the eventual heartbreak?
 

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Tell her that. "I gotta respect a man in a relationship. I'll only fvck you if you're single." or something like that. Then she can break it off with her ltr and you 2 can start fvcking again. I don't see the downside to this.
 
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She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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