RickTheToad
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Three is more than enough for me to handle. They tend to become needy and annoying after a while. ;'p. I have that nutty lady circling me too... Might have to freshen up the rotation soon.
"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"
When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.
Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.
Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.
The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.
Plate gets upset after sex
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“The 22 Rules That Flip the Script With Women… And How You Can Use Them Tonight”
Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.
Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers. Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.
I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.
Exactly. Finally someone gets it.
But i guess a guy would need to first try it to actually understand what I am talking about here, and i don’t expect any female to understand this concept.
backseatjuan
Banned
There is another thing here too. If you didn't cvm, she might have thought you have your tubes cut, which means she can't have your children, so that's why upset. Possibly.
i thought theres no noticable difference according to your load after vasectomy?!
Just stated "I dont feel desired".
"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"
You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.
And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.
Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.
The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.
RickTheToad
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You two are very strange dudes. Having sex so either of you don't climax... Brilliant.... Do you eat cereal w/o milk so the milk gets jealous of the dry cereal too?
Her vag must be boring you, especially if you been hitting it for a while or you been fapping too much. I can go multiple sex sessions without cumming with a girl I have been with for a significant amount of time, if I get some new vag, i ejaculate alot faster.
flowtheory
Master Don Juan
First of all, I have only did this like 4 times in 2 years of constantly having sex, but coz i did it twice in a row, she got upset.
Secondly, as I explained before, the reason why I did it is because i feel stronger the days after, physically and mentally. I reckon my mistake was not telling her exactly this.
"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"
You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.
And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.
Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.
The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.
Advice was how to go about from now on
SeekerOfTheWay
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Okay, i will be honest, i feel disappointed when a man doesn’t come. I take it a bit personally like i couldn’t get the job done and get him there. Like my feminine charms are lacking lol.
Logically i know it’s most likely his issue (tired, had sex earlier, etc) or choice. But the sex feels very incomplete to me unless he gets off. It’s almost like “that’s what i am here for and i let him down.”. I do actually try harder the next time. I once had a guy that took so long to come every session that i was getting a complex. Finally he admitted that he always jerked off before sex so he would last longer for me. That’s nice but i asked him to stop doing that. would rather see a man explode too fast than not at all and feel less desired. In fact i love when he can’t control himself sometimes and is like sorry you felt so good. not all the time mind you, i need time to come. but a good mix is perfect.
advice: just tell her the honest reason for not finishing. whatever it is, who cares. I would rather just know than wonder and blame myself. i always think being honest is the best. even if it’s not what i want to hear. at least it will make sense. Even if a plate tells me he had sex earlier and just cant come again, hey at least it’s not MY fault. lol. And he still got hard for me so we cool.
Logically i know it’s most likely his issue (tired, had sex earlier, etc) or choice. But the sex feels very incomplete to me unless he gets off. It’s almost like “that’s what i am here for and i let him down.”. I do actually try harder the next time. I once had a guy that took so long to come every session that i was getting a complex. Finally he admitted that he always jerked off before sex so he would last longer for me. That’s nice but i asked him to stop doing that. would rather see a man explode too fast than not at all and feel less desired. In fact i love when he can’t control himself sometimes and is like sorry you felt so good. not all the time mind you, i need time to come. but a good mix is perfect.
advice: just tell her the honest reason for not finishing. whatever it is, who cares. I would rather just know than wonder and blame myself. i always think being honest is the best. even if it’s not what i want to hear. at least it will make sense. Even if a plate tells me he had sex earlier and just cant come again, hey at least it’s not MY fault. lol. And he still got hard for me so we cool.
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Yes, i agree with you
SeekerOfTheWay
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There’s no lol. Dudes still ejaculate. If a chick thinks that, cut her loose. Too dumb.
MillionBillionaire
Master Don Juan
When I first met my ex GF .. I was doing Kegals and couldn't cvm the first time we had sex.
She was soo determined to get me to cvm she put the finger where the sun dont shine and played the trombone...
Cvm does wierd shyt to women.
She was soo determined to get me to cvm she put the finger where the sun dont shine and played the trombone...
Cvm does wierd shyt to women.
"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"
Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.
She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.
Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.
So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.
The words come later. The impression comes first.
sazc
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It's too late to explain his behavior now, she's going to think he made the explanation up at this point. The time for truth was as soon as it becomes an issue. But he couldn't tell her because either that's not really the issue, or he knows it sounds bizarre and is ashamedOkay, i will be honest, i feel disappointed when a man doesn’t come. I take it a bit personally like i couldn’t get the job done and get him there. Like my feminine charms are lacking lol.
Logically i know it’s most likely his issue (tired, had sex earlier, etc) or choice. But the sex feels very incomplete to me unless he gets off. It’s almost like “that’s what i am here for and i let him down.”. I do actually try harder the next time. I once had a guy that took so long to come every session that i was getting a complex. Finally he admitted that he always jerked off before sex so he would last longer for me. That’s nice but i asked him to stop doing that. would rather see a man explode too fast than not at all and feel less desired. In fact i love when he can’t control himself sometimes and is like sorry you felt so good. not all the time mind you, i need time to come. but a good mix is perfect.
advice: just tell her the honest reason for not finishing. whatever it is, who cares. I would rather just know than wonder and blame myself. i always think being honest is the best. even if it’s not what i want to hear. at least it will make sense. Even if a plate tells me he had sex earlier and just cant come again, hey at least it’s not MY fault. lol. And he still got hard for me so we cool.
i think I've run into this problem twice in my life and both times the resulting discussion is about how it's their "issue", not as a result of them purposefully holding back.
TBH, even with his mansplaining about how it makes him feel powerful and energetic the next day, at this point she's going to see that as a cover he conjured to get out of his issue with not being able to come. To me, hearing that would be a huge red flag that he's got mental issues he's not being truthful about, trying to hide from, and not addressing.
RickTheToad
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New waive of dudes thinking it's cool to have sex and not climax because it's the new thing that soy boys do. Good lord.