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Plate came back, how to act accordingly?

AM349

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Was dating this plate between nov-jan. I told her that is better to not see each other again because her behaviour became anoying.

She reached out yesterday because she saw that i was at a concert. She asked how it was and that she couldn’t go.

What is the proper way to respond/act when plates spin back?
 

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She reached out yesterday because she saw that i was at a concert. She asked how it was and that she couldn’t go.
Did she see that on social media? Otherwise, she's not telling the truth.
 

Tell her a little about yourself, but not too much. Maintain some mystery. Give her something to think about and wonder about when she's at home.

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If it's a plate, then it has a role.
And from what I understand, plates are there to have fun, to f@ck.
That's the role. So depending on your situation, you could take advantage of it.
 

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Just act cool, talk about the concert and ask if she wants to grab a drink to catch up sometime.

Her answer will let you know if she is just randomly messaging you to see if she still "has got you on the hook" or if she is genuinely interested in reconnecting.
 

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Was dating this plate between nov-jan. I told her that is better to not see each other again because her behaviour became anoying.

She reached out yesterday because she saw that i was at a concert. She asked how it was and that she couldn’t go.

What is the proper way to respond/act when plates spin back?
Tell her. I wanna fvck you, lets meet tonight in my place.
 

Clockwerk50

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You broke up with her. The ball is in your court.
 
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What happens, IN HER MIND, is that she comes to see you as WORTHLESS simply because she hasn't had to INVEST anything in you in order to get you or to keep you.

You were an interesting diversion while she had nothing else to do. But now that someone a little more valuable has come along, someone who expects her to treat him very well, she'll have no problem at all dropping you or demoting you to lowly "friendship" status.

Quote taken from The SoSuave Guide to Women and Dating, which you can read for FREE.

AM349

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Was dating this plate between nov-jan. I told her that is better to not see each other again because her behaviour became anoying.

She reached out yesterday because she saw that i was at a concert. She asked how it was and that she couldn’t go.

What is the proper way to respond/act when plates spin back?
Did she see that on social media? Otherwise, she's not telling the truth.
Yea she saw my post, i have an open account
 
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