"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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Plans with a vegan

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It's been a while guys, howdy to everyone that missed me (hah). I'll be back on the boards soon to start a new bootcamp with a buddy and try to go all the way through this time instead of becoming content with my results.

OK, with that said.

I want to give this lady I'm taking out a night to remember, hopefully a proper stuffing. She's somewhat odd though and I'd like some tips if possible. Here's everything I know.

She's a Hira Krishna. That means no meat. She loves animals, her major is film, is reading 'Wicked', originally from Texas (now in FL and moving to Boston), and she's a Hollister model. I made out with her one drunk night a long time ago, but messed up my chances because I couldn't get her name right.

Any ideas or plans would be great, and I wouldn't appreciate "get her drunk" cause I'm on a cycle right and can't drink.
 

"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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diplomatic_lies

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Isnt Krishna some kinda cult? I've dated a cult girl before, and trust me, it aint good. Cultists are usually nutjobs.

Otherwise, don't treat her special. Just because she's a cultist doesn't mean you have to tiptoe around her. I guess the only thing is not eat meat before making out with her,
 

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this girl sounds like bad news to me

any vegans are bad new to me lol
 

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http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Hare_krishna

Most serious 'Hare Krishna' practitioners live according to strict rules. For example it is expected that initiates take vows to abstain from all forms of drugs and intoxicants, (including caffeine); avoid eating any meat, fish and eggs; abstain from gambling; and also forgo all sexual relations except for purposes of procreation within marriage
Run for the hills.
 

"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"

When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.

Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.

Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.

The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.

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Well she obviously doesn't follow them that strictly if she got caught drunk.

Honestly man, you are looking to into this. She doesn't eat meat, fine, just don't eat meat. Treat her like any other girl. Sometimes I think getting all the knowledge from this site gets guys confused and overanalyzing everything.
 

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Film major... find a really good foriegn film for her to come watch.

Cook a meal from andrew weil's website, he has a lot of really good vegetarian meals. I eat them myself, and I hate vegetables.. so it has to be good.

I'd also break out the wine, sargia and fruit. You should make sure that you watch the movie sitting on a bed. A couch is too proper and uncomfortable, plus it just doesn't make you feel like natural lovers.
 

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Over-analyzing is a good way to put it. The only thing that has really helped me is the encouragement to get off my ass and socialize until you get laid.

All great advice, thanks especially to damage and everywomanshero. I broke off the date. I'm about to go through boot again and I don't want to be stuck on a single female. Peash.
 

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If you're of the same religion, or at least willing to hand your balls to her you'll do fine.
 

“The 22 Rules That Flip the Script With Women… And How You Can Use Them Tonight”

Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.

Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers.  Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.

I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.

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Hira Krishna
That's Hare Krishna (or Krsna), and they're not vegans.

They love milk and cheese. So they'd be technically willing to swallow.

On the other hand, nada until marriage! LOL! They're way more strict than catholics in that respect.

Oh well, go out with her a few times. It will be an enriching experience.
 

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Lmao. And worse than catholics? I'd like to order a bullet, preferrably aimed to my brain, please.
 

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Just about every restaurant has salad. If she can't stand the idea of you eating a big thick steak in front of her, then you're gonna have conflicts down the line anyway.

Or just do something that doesn't involve eating.
 

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show her the error of her ways......host a BBQ :p
 

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Offer to toss her salad.
 

"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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