"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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Planning for sex, can't mess up this time!

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I've been dating this girl for a little bit of time... she's hot and a surprisingly a closet freak considering i thought she was kinda a bookworm the whole time. Anyway, my last gf was the first time i had sex and despite 6-7 times, i only could ejaculate on only one occasion with a condom on. That led to our breakup bc she thought I wasn't turned on by her.

I DON'T want this to happen this time with the new girl, so i need your opinions. I already have stopped masturbating and hopefully will have a week lead time before sex. What else can I do?
 

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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What exactly are you complaining about? Most men would kill to be the polar opposite of a pre-ejaculate. The whole dumping you because you can't cvm sounds like a complete cop-out. Unless a girl is giving you head they usually wont care when you blow your load.

Did you and your ex do a lot of foreplay at all? I know some great heavy foreplay always made me go quicker. Also don't stress over it too much, anxiety will also effect your libido.
 
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Scars said:
What exactly are you complaining about? Most men would kill to be the polar opposite of a pre-ejaculate. The whole dumping you because you can't cvm sounds like a complete cop-out. Unless a girl is giving you head they usually wont care when you blow your load.

Did you and your ex do a lot of foreplay at all? I know some great heavy foreplay always made me go quicker. Also don't stress over it too much, anxiety will also effect your libido.
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actually i have the same problem. its really hard for me to bust a nut and ive had girls not breakup with me but definitely think im not turned on by them. its an ego destroyer for a lot of the girls ive been with. strippers especially get pissed off but in all reality, DONT GIVVA FÚCK
 
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Yeah sometimes I feel like sex is exhausting especially if you can't complete and you are going for like 15-20 minutes. And if you can't complete then you are left with a totally empty feeling and didn't even think having sex was fun. That's what I'd like to avoid.

You guys think that the polar opposite, ejac really fast, is worse. In some ways it is, but at least you can go again and get the experience over and over again.

I've stopped masturbating now for 3 days and I feel like that is supercharging me. Hopefully it will help.
 
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hitchcock1 said:
I've been dating this girl for a little bit of time... she's hot and a surprisingly a closet freak considering i thought she was kinda a bookworm the whole time. Anyway, my last gf was the first time i had sex and despite 6-7 times, i only could ejaculate on only one occasion with a condom on. That led to our breakup bc she thought I wasn't turned on by her.

I DON'T want this to happen this time with the new girl, so i need your opinions. I already have stopped masturbating and hopefully will have a week lead time before sex. What else can I do?
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damn dude, go consult with a doctor.
 

"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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you might be suffering from 'death grip syndrome' google it up
 
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I have the same problem: When I'm wearing a condom, I have serious problems busting my nuts. I usually tell the girl I have problems blowing my load when wearing a condom because I'm not used to them(I've had an 8.5 year LTR and only used condoms in the first month and a few times when she was on antibiotics) and thus have a hard time. I also tell them it's not their fault, and that alternative ways of finishing me off is fine too, which usually happens with a nice bl0wjob.

Just tell the girl you have a hard time orgasming with a condom and all will be fine.
 
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