"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."

Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.

Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?

You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.

Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.

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Planning for sex, can't mess up this time!

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I've been dating this girl for a little bit of time... she's hot and a surprisingly a closet freak considering i thought she was kinda a bookworm the whole time. Anyway, my last gf was the first time i had sex and despite 6-7 times, i only could ejaculate on only one occasion with a condom on. That led to our breakup bc she thought I wasn't turned on by her.

I DON'T want this to happen this time with the new girl, so i need your opinions. I already have stopped masturbating and hopefully will have a week lead time before sex. What else can I do?
 

"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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What exactly are you complaining about? Most men would kill to be the polar opposite of a pre-ejaculate. The whole dumping you because you can't cvm sounds like a complete cop-out. Unless a girl is giving you head they usually wont care when you blow your load.

Did you and your ex do a lot of foreplay at all? I know some great heavy foreplay always made me go quicker. Also don't stress over it too much, anxiety will also effect your libido.
 
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Scars said:
What exactly are you complaining about? Most men would kill to be the polar opposite of a pre-ejaculate. The whole dumping you because you can't cvm sounds like a complete cop-out. Unless a girl is giving you head they usually wont care when you blow your load.

Did you and your ex do a lot of foreplay at all? I know some great heavy foreplay always made me go quicker. Also don't stress over it too much, anxiety will also effect your libido.
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actually i have the same problem. its really hard for me to bust a nut and ive had girls not breakup with me but definitely think im not turned on by them. its an ego destroyer for a lot of the girls ive been with. strippers especially get pissed off but in all reality, DONT GIVVA FÚCK
 
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Yeah sometimes I feel like sex is exhausting especially if you can't complete and you are going for like 15-20 minutes. And if you can't complete then you are left with a totally empty feeling and didn't even think having sex was fun. That's what I'd like to avoid.

You guys think that the polar opposite, ejac really fast, is worse. In some ways it is, but at least you can go again and get the experience over and over again.

I've stopped masturbating now for 3 days and I feel like that is supercharging me. Hopefully it will help.
 
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hitchcock1 said:
I've been dating this girl for a little bit of time... she's hot and a surprisingly a closet freak considering i thought she was kinda a bookworm the whole time. Anyway, my last gf was the first time i had sex and despite 6-7 times, i only could ejaculate on only one occasion with a condom on. That led to our breakup bc she thought I wasn't turned on by her.

I DON'T want this to happen this time with the new girl, so i need your opinions. I already have stopped masturbating and hopefully will have a week lead time before sex. What else can I do?
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damn dude, go consult with a doctor.
 

"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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you might be suffering from 'death grip syndrome' google it up
 
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I have the same problem: When I'm wearing a condom, I have serious problems busting my nuts. I usually tell the girl I have problems blowing my load when wearing a condom because I'm not used to them(I've had an 8.5 year LTR and only used condoms in the first month and a few times when she was on antibiotics) and thus have a hard time. I also tell them it's not their fault, and that alternative ways of finishing me off is fine too, which usually happens with a nice bl0wjob.

Just tell the girl you have a hard time orgasming with a condom and all will be fine.
 
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