Why "Whatever You Want" Keeps You Single

She says the movie looks dumb; you suddenly agree. She tests you with a little attitude; you apologize for nothing.

You think you're being easy to get along with. She reads something else entirely: a man with no edges. Nothing to hold on to. No friction, no tension, no reason to wonder what he really thinks.

The "22 Rules" taught me to push back — playfully, calmly, without needing her approval. Strange things happened after that.

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Planning for sex, can't mess up this time!

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I've been dating this girl for a little bit of time... she's hot and a surprisingly a closet freak considering i thought she was kinda a bookworm the whole time. Anyway, my last gf was the first time i had sex and despite 6-7 times, i only could ejaculate on only one occasion with a condom on. That led to our breakup bc she thought I wasn't turned on by her.

I DON'T want this to happen this time with the new girl, so i need your opinions. I already have stopped masturbating and hopefully will have a week lead time before sex. What else can I do?
 

"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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What exactly are you complaining about? Most men would kill to be the polar opposite of a pre-ejaculate. The whole dumping you because you can't cvm sounds like a complete cop-out. Unless a girl is giving you head they usually wont care when you blow your load.

Did you and your ex do a lot of foreplay at all? I know some great heavy foreplay always made me go quicker. Also don't stress over it too much, anxiety will also effect your libido.
 
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Scars said:
What exactly are you complaining about? Most men would kill to be the polar opposite of a pre-ejaculate. The whole dumping you because you can't cvm sounds like a complete cop-out. Unless a girl is giving you head they usually wont care when you blow your load.

Did you and your ex do a lot of foreplay at all? I know some great heavy foreplay always made me go quicker. Also don't stress over it too much, anxiety will also effect your libido.
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actually i have the same problem. its really hard for me to bust a nut and ive had girls not breakup with me but definitely think im not turned on by them. its an ego destroyer for a lot of the girls ive been with. strippers especially get pissed off but in all reality, DONT GIVVA FÚCK
 
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Yeah sometimes I feel like sex is exhausting especially if you can't complete and you are going for like 15-20 minutes. And if you can't complete then you are left with a totally empty feeling and didn't even think having sex was fun. That's what I'd like to avoid.

You guys think that the polar opposite, ejac really fast, is worse. In some ways it is, but at least you can go again and get the experience over and over again.

I've stopped masturbating now for 3 days and I feel like that is supercharging me. Hopefully it will help.
 
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hitchcock1 said:
I've been dating this girl for a little bit of time... she's hot and a surprisingly a closet freak considering i thought she was kinda a bookworm the whole time. Anyway, my last gf was the first time i had sex and despite 6-7 times, i only could ejaculate on only one occasion with a condom on. That led to our breakup bc she thought I wasn't turned on by her.

I DON'T want this to happen this time with the new girl, so i need your opinions. I already have stopped masturbating and hopefully will have a week lead time before sex. What else can I do?
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damn dude, go consult with a doctor.
 

"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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you might be suffering from 'death grip syndrome' google it up
 
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I have the same problem: When I'm wearing a condom, I have serious problems busting my nuts. I usually tell the girl I have problems blowing my load when wearing a condom because I'm not used to them(I've had an 8.5 year LTR and only used condoms in the first month and a few times when she was on antibiotics) and thus have a hard time. I also tell them it's not their fault, and that alternative ways of finishing me off is fine too, which usually happens with a nice bl0wjob.

Just tell the girl you have a hard time orgasming with a condom and all will be fine.
 
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